Please no judgement. I’m in my 40s single after a very long abusive relationship. Been sort of seeing this man. Got stupidly drunk and we had unprotected sex. Now pregnant only just over 4 weeks. I can’t go to local hosp sexual health as I work there. Heard about bpas so going to ring them over the weekend. Basically want to know anyone’s experiences, was it just a phone call or did they need to see u beforehand? There is no way I can keep this baby and I feel awful but I have nearly died after having both of my babies and then struggled with my mental health to the point of being suicidal.