Pregnant 3rd child, dad wants me to get abortion because we aren’t together anymore

[Boymumxxxx]

I have an older child to a previous partner and 7 month old baby to this one. We have recently split up but I’ve found out I’m pregnant. I want to keep the baby but he’s saying if I do he won’t be involved in the baby’s life. He will only be involved with our 7 month old. Really don’t know what to do

please do what feels right for you as you will be the one coping with the emotional and practical fall out. it sounds like you want to keep the baby so do that. what he is saying now and what he does when the baby is born may be very different. charities like gingerbread will be able to support you negotiating dynamics etc. wishing you all the best but listen to your heart x