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Anyone had continuing pregnancy after medical termination?

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Zara1234uk · 27/06/2023 21:02

Hi all,
apologies if this is a sensitive subject, or long winded!
I found out I was pregnant after 2 ivf babies, naturally. I suffer with gestational diabetes and severe hypremesis in my previous pregnancies, and right away at 6 weeks it started again, I was bed bound and couldn’t eat or drink.
i panicked. Contacted bpas, which I never thought I would do ever, and had a medical termination at 7 weeks. I had bleeding with a few small clots but nothing major and no pain.
That was 4 weeks ago, at 3 weeks I had to do the test they sent, it had a very faint line that took a while to come up. Since then daily I’ve had positives on shop bought tests (Asda own) although not dark ones. I’ve not had a period yet, and the nurse at bpas wants me to go for a scan on Friday to see if I have a continuing pregnancy as I’ve had a growing basketball like abdomen which I had in prev preg and sore boobs, the sickness went away a day after I had the pills for the termination, so I thought that was that but foods started to taste funny again and when I told the nurse this she laughed and said “ooooh yep” ?
I majorly regret my hasty actions and wish I hadn’t gone through with it.. so if I was still pregnant I would be more than fine with it, but wouldn’t I have darker lines on the tests at 11 weeks?
Just to add to my stupidity we’ve been having unprotected sex since as we discussed and decided if it happens again we are going to have the baby. So I guess as the first time was over two weeks ago could it be a new pregnancy?

please please don’t judge me, I’m in a bad way with all this and realise I’ve been careless and naive, I just want to know your experience if you’ve had similar or know anything that might help? Thanks x

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LoveAndPatience · 27/06/2023 21:11

Hey Zara1234uk, always remember what you do with your life and body is your own business. Don't feel bad. I do too have an IVF baby. Now actively trying for another one. And I'm petrified... my first one is only 7mo , and because it took us 4years (3 IUI and 4ivf) to conceive we are trying early. My girl is so demanding and exhausting. Im afraid to have another child like this 😳i won't be able to cope!
Please make sure whatever you do is good for your mental health. As you need to be there for your other kids. If you do get pregnant I wish you a nice easy baby :)

Zara1234uk · 27/06/2023 21:21

@LoveAndPatience thank you for your kind reply, and sharing your story. Fertility treatments are rough aren't they. I hope you get your second little one and they’re more chilled out! X

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Zara1234uk · 28/06/2023 17:02

Anyone? X

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SH011 · 03/07/2023 19:09

Hi.. I found myself pregnant when I was on 5 week I get panicked and I try to terminate my baby but my abortion is failed and I get clots and bleeding but not that much I took one oral and two in vagina tablet name is breeky eni how I have some very personal reason so I don’t want to continue right now but when I went to Dr she checked me very well I don’t tell her that I took pill but when my BHCG was 17000 and everything was normal I decided to continue but u know there is a doubt came that if some thing his happend to my baby r any thing happend I cannot forgive myself I was searching and searching and I found that if ur abortion is unsuccessful ur baby might have defect.. so after this i thought I will do it again but with the new .. so again I took one oral pill and two tab in vagina a little bleeding comes out and that’s it and after few hours passed I took two more tab in vagina … in short nothing happend same clots but no that much not bleeding nothing I am 7 weeks now and I seriously want to continue my pregnancy .. I am thinking that if between my pregnancy something r incomplete baby that time I will be the same situation Dr they will abort .. I don’t know what to do I am so stresssd my brain stop working .. it’s only 7 weeks but I feel something moving in my belly .. I don’t know what to do .. I am seriously depressed 😭 what if I continue my pregnancy my baby will be ok .. my baby will be the full parts with full of activities 😭😭 I am really heart broken I don’t know what to do .

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SH011 · 06/07/2023 15:22

@RecycledKettle Thnku so much for ur very kind response .. I am 8 week pregnant now yesterday I went to Dr my baby growing very fast everything was normal first time I heard heart beat and this is my first baby so I decided to continue my pregnancy no matter what I am hoping that my this journey going well… Although it is tough but I am hoping and praying ..

Ishrat · 27/11/2024 06:39

Do u delivered your baby how is your baby now can your share your experience I'm in same situation I don't know what to do can I continue this pregnancy

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