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Boyfriend angry about not keeping baby

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Fluffyzoompoles · 08/02/2023 19:52

I’m currently 4/5 weeks pregnant
im due to start uni in september
got moved out of my area due to housing and have adhd I’m medicated for
last time I was pregnant I had horrific HG
my boyfriends angry at me that I don’t want the baby and has I’ve taken his choice away.
I already have two kids who lost their dad they are only 5 and 7
He doesn’t live with me
I also have to work or can’t cover rent
he can’t drive so can’t always come home and has to stay at his mums
my mum would be beyond angry
he doesn’t understand I want to keep it but feel like I have no choice and now he says he’s done taking about it if I want to ‘get rid then get rid’ and is being anything but supportive after telling me he wouldn’t be mad.
I just don’t know what to do

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scaredandanxious01 · 08/02/2023 20:46

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Please remember your partner doesn’t have a choice in this matter it is 100% YOUR choice because it is YOUR body, not his. It sounds to me that you know what you want to do, do not let him manipulate you or guilt trip you into keeping a pregnancy you do not want.

Fluffyzoompoles · 09/02/2023 00:39

Thank you for the reply I know what I have to do but it’s just made me feel deflated and hurt he’s turned it round like this when it wasn’t planned at al 😩

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heartbroken22 · 09/02/2023 11:30

Ignore him and tell him it's not like you can help when I'm going to be sick. Whose going to look after the kids? Whose going to work when I'm sick?

He's obviously not thinking about the reality of the situation. Follow your heart you know what you're doing. He should be more supportive at a time like this. I totally get why you want to terminate. I've been there with 2 kids and hg.

RecycledKettle · 15/02/2023 12:37

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