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Dreams of DP cheating!

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ktjj84 · 30/04/2009 14:20

I'm 23 week preg and i keep dreaming that my DP is cheating on me! Its driving me up the wall! Every week at least i have new dream about it and i wake up being very distressed.

Anyone else having these dreams?

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heverhoney1 · 30/04/2009 15:00

Weird dreams are normal I think. Are you generally very independant?

I think it could be because the whole having to be slightly more dependant on someone other than yourself makes you feel vulnerable.

coll36 · 06/05/2009 11:56

Hi

I am 29 weeks preg with my 2nd DC and have had this type of dream throughout both pregnancies. They are very vivid and he is always with different blonde women (I am very dark brunette)
I did read in one of my books that this is fairly common dream theme in pregnancy.
However I do always check every morning with DH whether he is leaving me or not!

Also dream a lot about people that I haven't seen for years etc

Zorra · 06/05/2009 12:19

I have this too I had a really horrible version last night - he had been cheating, she already had his baby, I found them having sex when I was looking for him to tell him I'd gone into labour, then he told me that he had possibly given me HIV because this woman had it [crazy emoticon] I have felt really teary and awful all day because of it.

Tbf DH is not the most reliable person, and I think these dreams are partly a response to all my worries about us...

coll36 · 07/05/2009 09:29

Oh God - last night I dreamt that I ended up in jail with my 2 yr old DD and started having an affair with a really old man in prison. So that is a new one

Makes me feel very weird in the mornings when I wake up

DH just laughs when I tell him

SabsBigPants · 07/05/2009 22:49

omg, im 19 weeks pregnant and have had at least 3 different dreams whilst pregnant that DH was cheating on me, but each time with different women that i know

feel relieved im not the only one!

anyone on here analyses dreams?

btw i trust DH would never do anything like to me, because he has seen how damaging an affair is and how it can break a family...and i am also quite independent...

Milliemuffin · 08/05/2009 11:57

Can't believe I'm readin all your stories of similar dreams, makes me laugh, i thought at the time what a weird dream and why did i dream the same thing twice, little did I know!! I only found out 2 days ago that I'm pregnant but two weeks ago I had 2 dreams that my partner was leaving me, one for a young blonde and one for his ex wife which was sooooooooo realistic! I woke up wondering if it was a dream as it was quite a long dream and felt very real but fortunately it was just a dream. how weird xx

WinkyWinkola · 08/05/2009 12:10

We've just been to DH's cousin's wedding. Last night, I dreamed it was DH who married the bride and I only found out when they were zooming off into the sunset in a old fashioned convertible.

My first thoughts were, "But he's gone and left me with two children for two whole weeks!" Then I woke up but it still felt so real, I was angry with DH for being so inconsiderate! What a weirdo.

ganda · 08/05/2009 12:51

I had the same dreams you all have but I just miscarried at almost 6 weeks... maybe my insecurities hit me.... I am so down!!!

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