Hi Natalie, sorry to hear that you'vegot such bad SPD...i had it too, its horrible!
I was induced with DS1 as waters broke but no labour (even after 94 hours!!).
Anyway, gel didnt work so was put on drip eventually, even then it took 6 hrs before i had any contractions...once it started it was v quick though, was fully dilated after 4 hrs. Unfortunately baby then showing signs of distress, heart rate dropping low and staying low for longer periods so ended up as emergency CS.
Even though this doesnt sound v. positive it actually was. Being induced does mean 1 on 1 midwife care during labour and both the ones i had were fantastic. The EMCS was scary at teh time as obviously worried about thet baby but all the staff involved were excellent so i actually felt like i had a good birth even though it ended up with lots of intervention.
I would keep an open mind, i had tens machine, then gas and air but did also have an epidural later on.
Another positivve is that the SPD does just go after delivery...it was amazing...even with c/s it was so much easier to walk the day after op than the day before so hold that thought in your head too!!