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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

what if i'm having a boy?

64 replies

misdee · 30/05/2008 18:52

ok, am being very silly now.

but keep panicking about 'what if i'm having a boy this time'

i have 3 girls. i am one of three girls then have a younger brother and we were evil to him. honestly, we attacked hi mwith make up, played jokes on him, our friends used to tease him and it was madness.

its going to be crazy here with 4 kids anyway, i know that, but the thought of throwing a poor little defenceless boys into the mix of my crazy practical joker girls, well it scares me.

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fymandbean · 30/05/2008 19:51

Boys

  1. Pee like a fountain when nappy off
  2. erm erm....

...otherwise just the same!

expatinscotland · 30/05/2008 20:04

K, I could be off to William Hill here.

My bet is that misdee's having a boy and I get to take her wee girl .

theAfkaUrbanDryad · 30/05/2008 20:07

boys can wee in their own eyes when you take their nappy off!

girls can't do that.

boys rock!

NorthernLurker · 30/05/2008 20:09

I think you're both having girls - but then i've got all girls and I do find it hard to imagine boys I did work really hard at that when expecting dc3 - just in case

chankins · 30/05/2008 20:13

I had 2 girls first and felt a bit like you when og with 3rd, not that I didn't want a boy, I just couldn't imagine it and worried what it would be like, as we were 3 girls and one boy growing up and my brother was more evil than the omen kid, but once I had ds I was so so so pleased to have my little boy ! He is the apple of all our eyes, a real little charmer, and now I am addicted to little boys, whereas I never used to notice them much when I was a mum of only girls ! Good luck with whatever you have !

snorris · 30/05/2008 20:14

Another here who keeps wondering if this one is a boy. . Poor thing would have 4 older sisters . Apparently the chances are about 10% though once you have had 3 of the same sex.

dizzydixies · 30/05/2008 20:15

snorris I alwayd dreamed of having 4 girls

dh apparently putting his foot down after this one regardless of what flavour

expatinscotland · 30/05/2008 20:15

Ah, see, NL, I know I'm having a girl. I don't even for one second speculate on having a boy because I just know it's a girl.

I'm having my scan late. My dates were changed at my last appointment but the hospital wouldn't move my scan so I'll be about 22 weeks when I have it.

Should be developed enough to see all her organs, her spine and brain oh, and her bits.

Cuz it's a girl, of course.

snorris · 30/05/2008 20:18

I got round it though by having two at the same time .

NorthernLurker · 30/05/2008 20:18

I'm sure you're right expat (who would argue with the scary pregnant lady ) If she does turn out to be a boy you can always call her marion anyway - like John Wayne

expatinscotland · 30/05/2008 20:22

See, I'm so used to calling her Muireann now Struan seems like it's a name that belongs to some other baby.

Like misdee's son .

callmeovercautious · 30/05/2008 20:23

My Mum is one of 5 Children, Eldest Child, then 2 more Girls, then boy then a much younger Sister (a bit of a suprise).

They teased him terribly and he now has 2DDs of his own - no boy in sight I do feel sorry for him but as a consequece he has a really happy Marriage - his wife says he is very understanding, and can talk to women about anything without getting sqeemish He is my favourite Uncle - I have 2 more on the other side.

dizzydixies · 30/05/2008 20:26

expat have some to decision as much as I love Muireann it doesn't go with my other two names

is it too late to change theirs by deed poll?!?

stleger · 30/05/2008 20:26

My boy is nearly 17, he is at a party in drag tonight. I have two dds 15 and 11. I am ancient. Dh is ancient. Every so often we admit that another wee boy would have been lovely. And each time I was certain I 'knew' what I would have and each time I was wrong. Good luck with all the babies. (Ds used to leak over the back of his nappy, they are incredible).

expatinscotland · 30/05/2008 20:29

Ah, see, we started from the get go with the Scottish/Gaelic names.

So as to carry on the trend.

I love how my DH says 'Muireann'. Even how DD1's name is pronounced around here.

dizzydixies · 30/05/2008 20:30

I should have thought it through from the beginning!!

sweetkitty · 30/05/2008 20:30

expat - I am the same in this pregnancy, look like a sack of shit, craved chocolate, acne same as last two and unless the sonographer missed a few bits it's definitely another girl.

I am quite glad it's a girl a boy wouldn't have a hope in hell with my other two.

sweetkitty · 30/05/2008 20:31

So the odds are dizzy, expat, misdee and springchicken are all waiting to find out if they are having a boy after 2 or more girls, chances are 2 of you are

I'll put money on misdee and dizzy

NorthernLurker · 30/05/2008 20:34

I will admit my ignorance (dh is Scottish but from Edinburgh so it barely counts ) and ask how you prounounce Muireann? It looks very pretty written down but haven't an earthly how you say it

dizzydixies · 30/05/2008 20:34

is that money on me and misdee having girls or boys?!?

I never could keep up with betting!

expatinscotland · 30/05/2008 20:34

My hair's going to be sent to Grangemouth for refining soon, SK, it's that greasy .

The sickness lasted even longer than with the first two girls, it just now went away and I am 19 weeks along.

The only difference is that I think my uterus has expanded a lot because this baby is sitting SO high it's not true. Even the midwives who examined me last week said she was high up there - I can feel her just under my navel most of the time.

sweetkitty · 30/05/2008 20:35

you and misdee having boys

expatinscotland · 30/05/2008 20:35

I think misdee's having a boy.

So is dizzy.

I'm having a Muireann.

sweetkitty · 30/05/2008 20:36

If you go on the old wives tales about the way you carry a baby = sex then I'm on my third boy by now and Chinese gender selector said boy too.

expatinscotland · 30/05/2008 20:37

all those predictors are pure bullshit.

yeah, the chinese thingy and the ring thing said DD2 was a boy.

but i knew she was a girl.