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Abnormal 12-week scan

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ThatDaringOchreBird · 24/04/2025 18:45

I just wanted to share and hopefully find some support. We had our 12-week scan, and unfortunately, it showed some abnormalities. It’s likely that we’ll have to say goodbye to this pregnancy. This was already an IVF journey, and we’ve had a miscarriage before, so this feels especially heartbreaking.
We’re devastated, and I’m really struggling to find the strength to keep going. I’m almost 38 and feeling incredibly hopeless right now—afraid of trying again and facing more loss.
If anyone has been through something similar, I’d be so grateful to hear how you got through it. Thank you for reading.

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ThatDaringOchreBird · 25/04/2025 10:37

Thank you all so much. I'm sorry for the delay in replying—I fell asleep crying... I truly appreciate all your kind words. @DarkclothesThere's no definitive answers about the heart yet, but I’ll keep you updated once we get more detailed test results from the fetal medicine team.

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