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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Gender guess

37 replies

Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 05:35

I have my 20 week scan this week so any last guesses!
This was 12 weeks 6 days
also for anyone who’s has one of each gender did you carry the same? I have felt different this time round but feel like I’m carrying the exact same! Would love to know if the whole bump shape is just a myth carrying low/high etc!

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Bex101990 · 14/01/2025 06:05

Ooo this is exciting! What do you have already? 35 weeks pregnant here with baby boy number 3 and if I didn’t know the gender this time my symptoms/ how I’m carrying I would be convinced it’s a girl as so different to other two 😂from your pic I’d prob say girl but it’s only a guess- please let us know! Hope the scan goes well x

Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 06:14

@Bex101990 ahh really! Are you carrying different to your other boys? As in high/ low etc? I have 2 boys and carried low with them and I feel I’m quite low this time too! Been told there’s no nub on my scan too! Will update! Xxx

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Bex101990 · 14/01/2025 06:28

@Dashingduster yes so with this one I would say I am carrying lower than with the other two and also don’t feel as big. Also this time around the nausea/ sickness at the beginning was horrendous but with my other two was just mild nausea - but I have heard from speaking with friends with 3 children that the third tends to be more enhanced with sickness etc - maybe because our bodies know what is to come who knows! When is your scan? Xx

Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 06:30

@Bex101990 i never had any sickness or nausea with my first 2 but felt horrendous this time - and I’ve carried low with both boys so that’s why I think it’s another boy haha did your scans all look the same? Xxx it’s Friday! X

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Bex101990 · 14/01/2025 06:35

@Dashingduster ah it’s so strange isn’t it how our bodies react! I always thought how you carry/ feel indicates gender but it didn’t for me although could for you !

so the scans all look pretty different to be honest 😂lots of people think my third scan looks more girly from the head shape etc but it was definitely a boy at my 20 week scan, I saw his parts before the sonographer even said it! Haha.

Ah I hope it goes well Friday! are you hoping for a girl? I’ll be honest, I really wanted a little girl so I wasn’t outnumbered but I’m coming around to having another little boy now and a little friend for my other two (6 and 3 and a half!) xx

Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 06:42

There’s no part of me that thinks this could be a girl I think purely because I already have 2 boys I don’t see it being possible haha my scan looks different on the head but there’s no nub visible which is annoying as I think that can be quite reliable! Ahh lovely 3 boys will be lovely
I think the symptoms must be just random and even how you carry! Did you carry really high with your first 2 xxxx

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PreferMyAnimals · 14/01/2025 06:44

I have a mix of boys and girls. The only difference I noticed was that I had worse morning sickness with the boys.

Bex101990 · 14/01/2025 06:46

@Dashingduster id probably say a bit higher with the other two but not loads more! Xx

Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 06:47

@PreferMyAnimals really! It must just be so random for everyone’s symptoms did you carry all yours low or high?

@Bex101990 i suppose come the third baby everything is more relaxed down there haha! Xx

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PreferMyAnimals · 14/01/2025 06:48

Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 06:47

@PreferMyAnimals really! It must just be so random for everyone’s symptoms did you carry all yours low or high?

@Bex101990 i suppose come the third baby everything is more relaxed down there haha! Xx

I probably tended to carry lower rather than higher - for all boys and all girls. They do, of course, drop lower closer to birth.

Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 06:58

@PreferMyAnimals and did your scans look any different? Xxx

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PreferMyAnimals · 14/01/2025 06:59

Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 06:58

@PreferMyAnimals and did your scans look any different? Xxx

I only had one scan for them all at 20 weeks. They looked the same, with the exception of the obvious parts. :-)

Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 07:11

Ahh ok!
@Bex101990 were your nubs all the same xxx

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Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 10:40

Anymore guesses xx

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Blue2020 · 14/01/2025 14:47

I had my son first and this time it’s a girl. I feel like I’m carrying the same, and my first trimester has been very similar. That much that I was convinced it was a boy again. I have got bigger quicker but my muscles are weaker so I put it down to that. Currently 26 weeks.

The only minor differences I have noticed:
-headaches at 5-6 weeks for this pregnancy but only for that week.
-sickness from 4-9weeks (with DS it was 7-14weeks so similar just later).
-placenta at the back this time (with DS it was front/anterior). This is completely random though with implantation, surely.

BusyCaz · 14/01/2025 14:51

I think baby is a girl x

Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 15:00

@Blue2020 ahh bless u so very similar! Were your scans similar or could you see a nub etc? There’s no nub on mine! 😭 are you carrying low or high ? X

@BusyCaz thanks for your guess! Can I ask why? Can’t seem to see a nub on my photo ! Thanku xxx

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BusyCaz · 14/01/2025 15:36

I have circled what I think could be the nub and bladder x

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Bex101990 · 14/01/2025 15:50

@Dashingduster first and third clear boy nub but my second baby there was no nub on pics x

Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 16:09

@BusyCaz ahh thanku! I sent it to some nub people they all came back no nub but their not all reliable I doubt, I do wonder about skull theroy! Xxx

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Dashingduster · 14/01/2025 16:10

@BusyCaz ahh thanku! I sent it to some nub people they all came back no nub but their not all reliable I doubt, I do wonder about skull theroy! Xxx
@Bex101990 ahh ! That’s why I think this is a boy too if no nub is imaged xx

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Dashingduster · 16/01/2025 07:24

Anymore guesses before I find out tomorrow! Pa been told there’s no nub visable xxx

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Bex101990 · 17/01/2025 20:06

@Dashingduster did you find out at yoir scan today?

Overthebow · 17/01/2025 20:14

Did you find out? I came on to guess girl because of the rounded skull shape.

Goldwhisper · 17/01/2025 21:49

I’d say girl 😊 did you find out?

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