Baby dad help.

[MyBrightScroller]

Please no negative comments. I had a drunken one night stand on 3rd Aug not sure if he cum or not. I don’t think he did. Then on 11th aug I slept with my ex boyfriend and he did finish inside me. I found out I was pregnant on 30th August. I had a an early scan on 22nd September I was 8 weeks. My midwife booked me in for my 12 week scan on 29th October and I was roughly 13 + 3/4 days couldn’t get accurate measurement as baby wouldn’t stay still. They gave me a due date of 2nd May due to 28 day cycle when my cycle was infact 31 day cycle. Who is the father to my baby ? I’m so upset with myself. Please no hate.

STI tests are just a standard part of pregnancy care, at least where I’ve lived during my pregnancies. You can refuse to have them done, but midwives basically just put all the ones that can affect a fetus or baby on the first set of blood tests you have - definitely HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea and chlamydia. They don’t ask about sexual behaviors or anything they just give all pregnant women these tests - not everyone who has been put at risk of catching these infections knows that they have been put at risk.

Hi OP, I’ve looked back over my tracking notes because I have the exact same due date as you (2nd May). My periods are irregular and I’ve a history of miscarriage so I kept a fairly accurate record of when I think I ovulated, positive pregnancy tests etc so I know roughly where I am. I have my estimated ovulation date as 12th August, negative pregnancy test 20th August, positive pregnancy test (faint) 24th August. So if your timings are the same as/similar to mine, I’d expect 11th August man to be the father, but obviously no guarantees. I hope everything works out how you want, good luck and congratulations on your beautiful baby

I don't know if I'm missing something but I'm confused why people think it's the ONS. Going by your dates I'd bet it was your ex. If you were 8 weeks on 22nd Sept then you ovulated around the 11th as the 8 weeks is including the time until your previous period and it's unlikely you ovulated a week after your first sign of period..

Yeah I use my period tracker to track everything I have done with my recent babies previously. I got a faint positive around 29th/30th August.
i really hope it’s my ex on the 11th im just sad with the situation but whatever the outcome is my baby will be loved no matter what and thank you xx

Also forgot to add I had sore boobs/sickness on 18th August

I was also confused why people think it could be ONS. I get that it’s close together but on my period tracker app it shows I was ovulating around my ex time up until the 15th.