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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Pregnant again after miscarriage, scared.

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Hannahgardize · 21/08/2024 18:02

Hi, 2 months ago, I had a miscarriage at 4-5 weeks. I'm 38,almost 39 so didn't really want to wait too long to start trying again. So dusted myself off and we tried again. I've just found out I'm pregnant again, 2 months later -which tbh I never thought would happen ,especially as I got 2 negatives at first (I tested too early I think, one 4 days before period and 1 on the due day). So I just thought that was that .Today I tested again as I'm still 2 days late on my period and have got a positive, and I'm definitely feeling all the pregnancy symptoms this time (last time I didn't strangely). I'll do one more pregnancy test to confirm first but I won't lie I'm getting slightly excited...I know a miscarriage can never be helped and there's nothing that can prevent it from happening-but I'm so worried of it happening again. Just wondering if anyone has any positive success stories to calm my anxiety a bit. I'd love to hear. ❤️

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TMI2000 · 21/08/2024 18:35

Hi lovely! Last February I suffered a miscarriage at 8 weeks, it passed naturally and I was bleeding for about a week, I waited 2 weeks and tested negative, when I hadn’t come on 6 weeks post miscarriage, I did a test and was positive. Never known such anxiety but excitement. I was not expecting to get immediately pregnant without even having a period but that positive is now 9 months old hitting me in the head with his rattle 😂🫶🏼❤️

LonelyFooleightyfour · 21/08/2024 20:23

Hello
Virtual hugs for your first angel and congratulations on your future bundle of joy. This little one is destined to be yours. Keep your spirits high by nourishing your body on that big day. Healthy diet and exercise.

notenoughcaffeine · 21/08/2024 20:28

Congratulations!
Sending you all the good wishes.
I've suffered a few miscarriages so I know how you're feeling. The joy that you're pregnant but the fear too.
I had a successful pregnancy after the losses and my 10 month old daughter is currently snoring away in her bed ❤️

JJM13 · 21/08/2024 20:35

I had a MMC last year when i was also 38 i found i was pregnant and i am now sitting with my 6 week old daughter in my arms . Hope all goes well for you 😊

LucyCL · 21/08/2024 21:21

Congratulations! I had two early losses this year and found out I was pregnant again on 10 dpo, so 13 days ago. It is also my third pregnancy. I was really scared and super anxious until this morning. I had mild cramps so I thought I might have an ectopic pregnancy and I decided to do the first early scan at 5 weeks and 3 days this morning. It turned out to be fine. It now has a yolk sac and gestational sac measured at 5 weeks and 2 days. The reason why I am mentioning my scan is that pregnancy after loss is hard but we shall trust our body again which will help us to reduce the anxiety and enjoy this new pregnancy. 💙

Hannahgardize · 25/08/2024 06:55

Thank you, it really made me smile to hear these lovely stories of you sat with your little ones ❤️ unfortunately I just started bleeding again, so I think it's another miscarriage 😔

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