Dunno what to think or do

[Twimum23]

So my twins are now a year old Monday just gone I know I have gained a few lbs since having them I have gone and got a exercise bike I’m using Every day when babies are down for a nap usually 30-40mins a day plus eating healthy but every time me and partner argue his like oh you fat heffa or I’m fat and ugly he don’t know why his with me and so on I’m sure you can guess what else he says just say it’s not nice and if my son speaks to his gf or wife like that he would get a 👋 …..I’m now that down I’m considering a tummy tuck and a boob job as everything he says is making me feel down and worthless

He sounds awful. There's no excuse for speaking like that to the mother of your children.

Draw a red line, make it clear you will not tolerate being spoken to like that. He needs to a gold standard example of how to treat a woman, or get lost.

@Twimum23 I'm so sorry 😞 That sounds awful. I'm so sorry you are being abused like this. Is this a change in him or has he always said stuff to knock your self esteem? What happens if you tell him it's unacceptable/he shouldn't talk to you like that? Do you have a good support network locally?

You would be better off ditching him. He sounds vile.