I feel so lonely and lost

[Amy199008]

Hey I am 36 weeks pregnant. Few months I got diagnosed with depression. My family don’t support me in this pregnancy my partner is not very supportive at all. He will help me with the house stuff and clean. But when it comes my mental health he ignores it and don’t take it seriously. He never takes me anywhere, he is very meant to me and rude. Last week he said he will take me out to my favourite restaurant but he decided to cancel the whole plan which made me sad and upset. And he didn’t care he was calling me crazy and I am selfish. Few days ago he said he will go and help his uncle, I said to him you know I am 36 weeks you can’t go different city he left and switch his phone off. He saying sorry but I can’t forget how he’s been treating me this past 8months. I feel so sad and lonely I can’t stop crying.

I'm sorry this sounds truly awful. Do you have any close family or friends you can confide in?

Does he realise the impact of how he is making you feel? I would look in the first instance to build up the other support around you. Let friends and family know you are struggling and need more from them in the next few weeks.
Then see if your partner is open to relationship counselling?
It sounds like there is a lot to be worked on

What do you do for your mental health ? You say he never takes you anywhere , do you suggest going places ? I know he needs to support you and be mindful of your mental health but ultimately you need to look after yourself and make your health a priority it's your responsibility first and for most . It sounds like da like he at least tries help maybe in the way he knows how by cleaning the house , how you spoken to him and told him how you are feeling ?