So I'm 9 weeks pregnant with baby 2 and have been designated high risk due to previously having Pre-eclampsia (not picked up until mid-labour) and growth restriction (not identified until 40weeks pregnant!). Plus a few other birth complications like haemorrhage, foetal distress during labour etc.
I'm also having a maternal request c-section due to trauma from all of the above. I had a precipitate labour that lasted 1hr45 from start to finish with no pain relief, plus all those complications. No WAY am I doing that again and I'm now terrified of labour. Luckily my midwife completely agreed and understood without question.
My question is - has anyone else here been through the higher risk pathway due to previous pre-eclampsia or foetal growth restriction? What can I expect from here except extra scans? What were your experiences of being high risk for second or other pregnancies?
I was very low risk for my whole pregnancy right till the end last time, so had a completely stress-free time full of hypnobirthing research, meditation and being generally very zen. Now I'm trying to parent a 14 month old and trying to get my head around how much will be different this time.