So I'm 11weeks and a bit anxious to say the least. My partner and I haven't had sex since we conceived but my sex drive is still pretty decent so I have given in and DIY a couple of times! The first time I felt a little crampy for about half an hr after so I just stayed laying in bed. But the last time which was a about 5 days later there wasn't really any cramping or tightness at all afterwards. Is this normal?? I thought everyone experienced pain or cramping after sex/orgasm due to the uterus contracting