Pregnancy unexpected

[LillyJ95]

Hey,

I have a 2 year old and have just found out I'm pregnant.

i have a lot of life plans going on this year but me and my husband were planning on starting to try for baby number two towards the end of the year.

i have two of my best friends wedding which I'm a bridesmaid in both (both have long weekend hen do plans with drinking and activities)

Ive also saved really hard to suprise my husband a trip to Disneyland Paris with our 2 year old in July...will a baby ruin all of this?

anyones experience on travel/disneyland Paris whilst 4/5 months pregnant would be great I don't want to move the trip as a lots gone into it but I also don't want to feel like I'm missing out.

i also have a sick parent recently diagnosed with cancer which is a lot to deal with...is it just a bad time for a baby

Firstly, congratulations on your pregnancy. You do certainly seem to have a lot going on and very sorry to hear about your sick parent. That is always really hard. The trouble with pregnancy, as many on these forums will agree and doubtless you too, is that it has a tendency to occur when not expected a lot more than it does when planned for.
Not sure how you would feel if you terminated now and tried again later, only to find it didnt happen for a long time or at all.
I cant comment re the travel but I would say that this is far from essential and is nothing compared to nurturing a new life, a tiny new member of your family!
That said, you have a sick parent and that is really stressful so you may feel that being pregnant at the same time is just too overwhelming and that is completely understandable. Whatever you decide is right for you and your family I wish you every happiness.