I find it very bizarre that in the workplace people are encouraged to learn and develop, but when there are issues personally we are just told “it’s just how they are?”.
We are experiencing issues at the moment with various family members and friends for the past couple of years and I am so tired of hearing “it is just how they are”. If I was causing upset or something I would like to be told so I can self-reflect and develop as a person…
It just feels like a cop out for crappy behaviour.