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Please help I am so scared

36 replies

Rockyslife · 12/01/2024 11:35

went for a scan yesterday due to spotting and there was a heart beat, this morning I needed a number two and as I was having one a clot came out with it 😭😭😭 I dipped the tissue in the loo to see if it was and this is what it made 😢 the midwife can't do anything and has said I have to wait and see and theres nothing they can do. Has anyone experienced this amount of blood before and everything was ok?? It's like something passed through. I don't have cramps yet 😢

OP posts:
Anjea · 14/01/2024 09:18

How frightening. I hope things are okay at the scan x

Rockyslife · 14/01/2024 10:13

Sadly baby has gone 😞 not sure how to feel right now but after all of the pain and stress part of me is relieved I know. Just a shame after three years of trying a miracle happened. Life's cruel

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Dramasloth · 14/01/2024 10:20

😞❤️

jellyfish2 · 14/01/2024 10:21

I'm so so sorry. Please look after yourself ❤️

SmallestInTheClass · 14/01/2024 10:23

So sorry for your loss. I hope you have support around you. Take care of yourself ♥️

Rosiiee · 14/01/2024 10:26

Sending love OP. Look after yourself xx

JimJonesLivesInMyHead · 14/01/2024 10:27

This is absolutely heartbreaking 😢i am so, so sorry xx

Inyournewdress · 14/01/2024 10:40

I’m so very sorry for your loss.
I know you’re probably not ready to think about this yet but when you can, I would pressure your doctor for a full panel of blood tests including anti phospholipid syndrome. It’s extremely unlikely you have it but as someone who does I would just always advise people to get that ruled out.

don’t give up xx

TheShellBeach · 14/01/2024 10:42

Oh no. I'm so sorry to hear that.

LondonGirl1992 · 14/01/2024 14:36

So sorry to read this, sending you the biggest hug and lots of love. Look after yourself x

Farcis · 14/01/2024 14:46

OP I’m so very sorry. Just be kind to yourself and take the time you need to recover. My first miscarriage sounds quite like yours and I took two weeks off work - I needed every minute.

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