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Who is likely to be the dad?

41 replies

Mumofthreee1 · 05/01/2024 19:17

Hi Everyone
please dont be judgement im stressed!

my LMP Was 10-07-2023.. 5 days of period
cycle varies between 26-28 days!

i had sex with person A the 16th of july unprotected
then 21st july with person A unprotected, both times he ejaculated!

sex with person B 29 july 2023. Protected but u never know right.

then after 6 days.. 4th august 2023 i got a positive pregnancy clearblue test! Which read PREGNANT.

on the 13th of august i did another test and it said PREGNANT 3+

my duedate is 13th April 2024

who is likely to be the father???

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OhhhhhhhhBiscuits · 05/01/2024 19:19

Person A is likely but please stop having unprotected sex

PurBal · 05/01/2024 19:20

Probably person A. It takes time to implant and hormones to rise enough to show on a test. Hope you’re okay.

Saschka · 05/01/2024 19:20

A, obviously. You had unprotected sex, twice, with them in your fertile window.

Person B was 19 days after your LMP, so well after you will have ovulated.

ItsVeryHyacinthBucket · 05/01/2024 19:21

Person A.

SecondUsername4me · 05/01/2024 19:21

A is the most likely - dates line up better and lack of contraception adds to the probability.

Unless you want a child, why aren't you using the pill/other female contraception? And let's home Person A doesn't have any STIs

SecondUsername4me · 05/01/2024 19:22

Given your username, does this mean you will be a mum of Four?

Reugny · 05/01/2024 19:25

Wait until the baby is born and get DNA tested, as while it is most likely to be person A there is a small chance it could be person B.

Mumofthreee1 · 05/01/2024 19:27

Oh really.. can you test positive 6 days after sex? It was protected tho

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Mumofthreee1 · 05/01/2024 19:28

Thanks for your concern. Ive already been tested. Im clean .. thanks for your reply😘

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Stringagal · 05/01/2024 19:28

You’d have been most fertile around 21-24 July, so I reckon person A. Agree you’ll need to do a DNA test to be fully sure.

jusmoi · 05/01/2024 19:29

Person A, implantation can take upto 6 or so days I think so very doubtful it's B

Salesarefullofcutpricesprouts · 05/01/2024 19:31

I got pregnant on day 23 of a 28 day cycle.. Anything is possible ime..

Mumofthreee1 · 05/01/2024 19:32

@Salesarefullofcutpricesprouts did you get a positive test on the day you missed ur period or very mich later?

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Mumofthreee1 · 05/01/2024 19:32

@SecondUsername4me Thanks for your concern. Ive already been tested. Im clean .. thanks for your reply😘

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blackpanth · 05/01/2024 19:32

Person A

Salesarefullofcutpricesprouts · 05/01/2024 19:34

Period was 2 weeks late before I got a bfp..

Mumofthreee1 · 05/01/2024 19:35

@Salesarefullofcutpricesprouts ohh okay . No i had my positive test before i even missed my period. 4 days before so then i guess everyone is right its person A. Thankyou for your reply tho💕

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MojoJojo71 · 05/01/2024 19:36

Given the length of your usual cycle and the unprotected sex I’d say that A is the more likely of the two but the time between is so short that it’s is impossible to be sure and only a DNA test is going to give you the answer you need.

Twiggywinkle13 · 05/01/2024 19:37

Fairly confident it’s person A. No need for the snide comments people are making. Hope this is good news for you op but if it isn’t, sending you love

Redlarge · 05/01/2024 19:38

Its a most likely

Ormside · 05/01/2024 19:39

Likely is not certain. You can't be sure which without a DNA test, unless there's a huge dripfeed coming concerning race.

Theyarehere · 05/01/2024 19:39

Sounds most likely to be person A but you can’t ever rely on biology! I really hope it all works out for you but as PP say a DNA is the only sure fire way.

Mumofthreee1 · 05/01/2024 19:39

@MojoJojo71 yeah.. person B was PROTECTED thoo.. i get you .. i found out 3 days before my period had to start with a clearblue digital so that makes me think its person A too.. if i was oregnant by B i think i would get a positve pregnancytest maybe a week AFTER my period was due .. secondly i found out after 6 days of sex with with person B .. my duedate is 13th April 2024.. but thankyou for taking ur time and thinking with me💕💕💕

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Mumofthreee1 · 05/01/2024 19:40

@Twiggywinkle13 aaaw thankyou yes it lines up with my due date and everything ( 13 april 2024) thankyou so much for taking ur time to reply💕💕💕 im happy its person A .. because my gut was telling me that too

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Charlotterf · 06/01/2024 14:22

Im sort of in a similar situation, I understand the worry! To work it out, it all depends on how long your cycles where between each period, that’s how I done it.
So if you have shorter cycles (under 28 days) your more likely to ovulate just after period has finished and longer cycles( over 30 days) you ovulate on day 20 or later.

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