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Cramps after sex

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MissKH84 · 28/11/2023 15:57

This may be a little tmi for some.
please dont read if your easily offended.
Due to previous miscarriages we decided not to have sex during this pregnancy. I'm 7 weeks. I'd read for women with multiple miscarriages pelvic rest is recommended.
I normally have a very low sex drive but pregnancy hormones have driven me crazy. I'm h*rny all day long. Tmi but I keep getting loads of body fluid down there to the extent I have to wear a pad to stop it soaking through into my trousers.
This morning when we woke up before work the feeling was overwhelming and my dh and I touched each other. There was no orgasm. Afterwards we had extremely gentle sex. He didnt enter the full way. Only for a moment or two. I was getting very very close so we stopped .
Now all day I've had terrible cramping. I'm worried could this arousal and soft play have caused uterine contractions ?
I haven't had my midwife appointment yet and to be honest I'm too embarrassed to ask my gp . It feels like period pain. I usually get this when I orgasm and a gynae told me before it's likely due to the uterine contractions so I'm concerned this is what it is and I didn't have any orgasm this morning.I'm freaking out now as its taken us 3 years since our last miscarriage to get pregnant and we required treatment

OP posts:
RSB94 · 28/11/2023 16:33

Hi,

I understand your concern and worry. I just wanted to add in that since my positive test, I am unable to have sex or any orgasm without intense cramping and pain afterwards. No bleeding has occurred but it has made me decide to not partake in the activity haha!
I've read posts from others on here which have had similar in 1st trimester and have said that this improves.

glasshalffull0 · 28/11/2023 18:05

The exact same thing happens to me after sex and an orgasm- feels like period pains. I've extensively googled it and it just seems to be minor contractions. It's really put me off doing either of the things again! Totally normal apparently but it isn't worth the worry afterwards!

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