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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Sex 3/4 days before ovulation

14 replies

Sianduck · 04/10/2023 03:05

So we have been trying to have another little one. my partner works away so I can only see him some weekends. My Flo app told me I ovulated on Monday but today (Wednesday) I have - egg white discharge. We had sex Saturday (technically Sunday at 2am) so I’m guessing I sadly won’t get pregnant from this? Sadly he’s away so I’m upset he’s not here when I’m actually ovulating 😭

hopefully this isn’t too confusing to read, just wanting a bit of support I guess 🥰

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sykadelic · 04/10/2023 03:07

You're not completely out.

"Sperm can live in the female reproductive tract for about 5 days, so pregnancy after sex may take place up to 1 week before ovulation. An egg lives for 12–24 hours after ovulation. This means that fertilization can occur if intercourse happens anywhere from several days before ovulation to about 1 day after ovulation."

PerfectMatch · 04/10/2023 03:08

When I got pregnant with DS1 I thought it wouldn't happen that month as DH was away during my fertile window so we had sex 3 days before ovulation (I was using ovulation sticks). But it worked! I think sperm can hang around in your body for a few days after having sex. Good luck OP.

MummyTo4BoysXXXX · 04/10/2023 10:58

I'm currently 21+2 with our what I call "one shot wonder" 🤣 only had sex once 4 days before ovulation! so you never know 😊 our first girl is due in Feb 2024.. 💕

pamshortsbrokenbothherlegs · 04/10/2023 13:20

My current pregnancy happened in the opposite scenario - DH was away, we wrote off that month of trying and ended up DTD a full 4 days after I should have ovulated. It's twins.

I think the moral is that all the sticks and apps can help, but none of it can actually tell you what is going on in there when, so you might as well try as much as you can even outside your assumed "window", and stay positive.

Sianduck · 06/10/2023 07:12

Thanks ladies!! Super nervous to text in a weeks time. The longest wait!!

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Plumful · 06/10/2023 07:15

Don’t use the flo app. Use ovulation sticks. I ovulate about six days later than the app! Got pregnant first month of trying both times using the clear blue kit.

Sabina93 · 10/10/2024 07:57

@Sianduck Hii, just saw this post. Did you get pregnant at the end?

Sianduck · 10/10/2024 08:00

Yes! She’s 3.5 months. They say girls come at the 3-4 day mark and they were right!

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Sianduck · 10/10/2024 08:10

Sabina93 · 10/10/2024 07:57

@Sianduck Hii, just saw this post. Did you get pregnant at the end?

Yes! She’s 3.5 months! They say girls come at the 3-4 days pass mark! And they were right!

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Sabina93 · 10/10/2024 10:05

@Sianduck oh wow how nice. Congratulations. I have 2 boys so a girl would be nice 😊
We did dtd Saturday 5th and Monday 7th around 3am in the morning and I had positive opk yesterday 9th so fingers crossed.

Silverfoxlady · 10/10/2024 14:13

Congratulations!!

Coincidentally, I also have a 3.5 month old - so we were both lucky 😁

Sabina93 · 10/10/2024 20:50

@Silverfoxlady congratulations 🎊. Also girl??? Or boys? 😊

Silverfoxlady · 10/10/2024 21:34

Sabina93 · 10/10/2024 20:50

@Silverfoxlady congratulations 🎊. Also girl??? Or boys? 😊

Thank you - also a girl 😊

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