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Nearly 3 weeks late but all tests are negative

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Crazyplantlady97 · 25/09/2023 14:16

Hi me and my parthave been TTC for little over a year now, i am currently 17 days late but all the tests are coming back negative. I have pcos but ive never been this late before. There is no sign of a period coming but not many symptoms of early pregnancy either. Ive seen that many people with pcos have not gotten their BFP till as late as 10 weeks dpo and i was just wondering what your experiences are with pcos, when did you get your bfp, is there a chance im pregnant currently or is it more likley to be a late/missed period given how late it is with just BFNs?? I dont think i can handle many more negative tests :( and getting an appointment with our GP right now is incredibly hard. Any help, advice or reassurance will be really appreciated

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TTCbaby2023 · 25/09/2023 14:26

Have you been tracking your ovulation like with temperature? When my PCOS was bad, I sometimes had cycles as long as over 50 days and if I hadn't tracked my BBT, I would have been very confused.

EarringsandLipstick · 25/09/2023 14:30

many people with pcos have not gotten their BFP till as late as 10 weeks dpo

That's not the case OP.

Once the HCG is at a detectable level there will be a positive test.

Unfortunately long cycles are very common with PCOS. Have you also had your thyroid checked, as this can also affect ovulation / cycles?

Crazyplantlady97 · 25/09/2023 15:36

I have been but its difficult to track

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Crazyplantlady97 · 25/09/2023 15:40

Yeah ive had my thyroid checked all it normal there, ive spoken to many people witb pcis who have said they didnt get their BFP till as late as 7/10 weeks for whatever reason thats why I mentioned that. It’s unlikely this is pregnancy though :( that being said i have been having horrible headaches and ive been sick a lot today, my chest is a bit sore also so its safe to say were confused in our house 😅 at this point id just like to know what is going on, as i said i have fairly regular cycles between 25/30 day’s usually so this one is rather bizzare

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Crazyplantlady97 · 25/09/2023 15:53

its entirely possible I’ve gotten the dates wrong, the last time we had s*x was 18 days ago, i had some spotting 11 days after that followed by a few other mild symptoms like bloating, sickness etc. if it was that 18 days ago should the test show up by now?

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Crazyplantlady97 · 25/09/2023 15:59

If the spotting was implantation that puts me on day six after implantation

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IVFKinster · 25/09/2023 19:23

I wonder if the spotting, bloating and nausea are actually signs of ovulation rather than implantation? Unless of course you get a positive test in the next week!
Whenever my PCOS caused really long cycles, I'd always have a bit of break through spotting when I finally ovulated.

Crazyplantlady97 · 26/09/2023 09:23

I mean it’s possible but that would be a very late ovulation, that would be 4 weeks late for ovulation and ive never been that irregular! Ill keep testing and keep yall updated :) thank you for your responses

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Crazyplantlady97 · 26/09/2023 11:24

Well tested again today and it also looks negative and i feel like it it was positive it would have at least shown a faint line by now. I think its safe to say we weren’t successful this month :(

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Crazyplantlady97 · 26/09/2023 11:34

Okay scratch that there is the FAINTEST line but its not clear like an evap line so were back to confusion. Were going to get a clearblue digital one tomorrow

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FirstMondayInMay · 26/09/2023 12:11

Which tests have you been using? I got my first reallllly faint positive on those cheap strip tests from Poundland and then used a first response the day after and it was a clear positive

I’ve got pcos and had a 40 odd day cycle the month I caught, so probably ovulated around day 25

Crazyplantlady97 · 26/09/2023 12:36

Today was a cheap wilkos strip we had, im on day 47 since the start of my last period.

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TTCbaby2023 · 26/09/2023 13:49

@Crazyplantlady97 I would advise you to buy a First Response Early Response. They are very sensitive.

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