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BFP at 9DPO after a MMC

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spermwhale · 30/08/2023 12:50

I've just gotten my BFP 2 months after a MMC that was found at 12 weeks where the baby died at 8+3. When I rested positive 2 months ago, I didn't test till the day of my missed period, but I had some symptoms that made me want to test today. I thought it was a dodgy test but I did 2 and they're both pink and positive. I did track ovulation this month and it was darkest on CD13, here's my tests, they're not particularly early response ones although they do say they can test 4 days before missed period in the leaflet but not advertised as early tests, they're just from Poundland. I am so scared right now!!! After a chemical and a MMC, could this be our rainbow baby?

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spermwhale · 30/08/2023 13:44

I had to do another (bottom) I was convinced the 2 I had done was wrong lol

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Kellyaust · 30/08/2023 19:43

Nice to see you over on this board, both of us with the same story. I hope we both get our rainbows. Do you have an early scan or are you looked after by the epu?

spermwhale · 30/08/2023 20:57

@Kellyaust It is nice to be here!! I'm not with EPU, I haven't rang anyone yet, and I don't want to book a private early scan as I'm traumatised from last time 😭 what about you?

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Kellyaust · 30/08/2023 21:20

@spermwhale i am with epu so they have me in for a 6 week scan next week then every 2 weeks for reassurance so im terrified x

spermwhale · 30/08/2023 22:16

@Kellyaust how many losses have you had if you don't mind me asking? I've had one chemical (never went to hosp) and a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks, not sure if they would see me x

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Kellyaust · 31/08/2023 07:18

@spermwhale they should, I've only had one MMC x

spermwhale · 31/08/2023 07:29

@Kellyaust did you contact EPU yourself or through the gp? X

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Kellyaust · 31/08/2023 08:08

@spermwhale i contacted them myself, the nurse at epu who dealt with my mmc told me to contact them directly if I conceived again. You should call yours see what they say because I'm also going to be given progesterone if my scan next week goes well x

spermwhale · 02/09/2023 18:07

@Kellyaust I actually believe it after a digi!

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Kellyaust · 02/09/2023 18:10

@spermwhale brilliant,i reckon you'd have had a positive digi at 10dpo like I did, great lines 🤞

spermwhale · 02/09/2023 18:11

@Kellyaust how far are you now? I'm praying this doesn't turn into a chemical

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Kellyaust · 02/09/2023 18:15

I'm 5+1 today, have my scan at 6 weeks so I'm just praying. It's all we can do isn't it, all out of our control and I hate that. Hopefully we will both have successful rainbows x

spermwhale · 02/09/2023 18:25

@Kellyaust let me know how that goes please, I'm only 4 weeks tomorrow!

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Kellyaust · 02/09/2023 18:27

spermwhale · 02/09/2023 18:25

@Kellyaust let me know how that goes please, I'm only 4 weeks tomorrow!

I will do, to be honest it's flown coz I was only 3+2 when I found out and that still feels like yesterday x

spermwhale · 03/09/2023 07:54

@Kellyaust todays is looking even stronger !! I think I can stop testing nkw

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spermwhale · 03/09/2023 20:28

@Kellyaust I shouldn't have tested this evening 🥲 would you be concerned this evenings is lighter than this morning?

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spermwhale · 03/09/2023 20:29

With flash

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Kellyaust · 03/09/2023 20:34

@spermwhale well I can't say I wouldn't be concerned coz I'm a worrier, BUT all the rest are fmu right? So that's the only evening one, it will be diluted no doubt x

spermwhale · 03/09/2023 20:37

@Kellyaust yes the rest are all mornings tests, I just had an urge to test but now I wish I didn't AF is due tomorrow so praying I don't come on

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Kellyaust · 03/09/2023 20:38

No that'll be why, test one more time with fmu tomorrow then put the tests down 😣x

spermwhale · 03/09/2023 20:48

@Kellyaust good idea! The urge to test is to much sometimes 😫

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Kellyaust · 03/09/2023 20:51

It is, but because we've had losses we are going to panic over everything xx

Kellyaust · 04/09/2023 14:37

Any news?

spermwhale · 04/09/2023 14:57

Darker again this morning :)

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spermwhale · 04/09/2023 14:57

@Kellyaust

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