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DP questioning paternity

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Pregnantat45 · 10/06/2023 19:20

Last night I discussed my late period with my DP ( of 10 years), noting it was either pregnancy or menopause. We ‘joked’ about pregnancy and he asked if it was his. I told him not to be so rude. This morning I took a test and I’m pregnant! He is not too keen at the moment, but he feels we have hardly had sex lately and twice more today he has suggested it might not be his. I’m not sure whether to ignore it or address it - I feel like I might protest too much ( it is 100% his). WWYD?

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PrincessPalatine · 10/06/2023 21:55

HeddaGarbled · 10/06/2023 20:22

yep, normal is about once a week 😂 he doesn’t seem to think that’s enough. I have explained that I’ve been on medication that (I now realise!) could make me more fertile and hey presto

Good grief, the pair of you need to educate yourselves about how babies are made. Were you both off school that day?

A baby is made during ONE SHAG. It doesn't matter how often you do it. The sperms don't build up inside you over a period of weeks!

ThomasinaLivesHere · 10/06/2023 21:56

Pregnancy is quite unpredictable. I only had sex once in the cycle I was successful in despite having it much more frequently in previous unsuccessful ones. You’d think he would have realised that given he’s already had a child with you and not done so in a while despite unprotected sex.

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