3 miscarriages and finally feel ready to try again..

[cymraes1989]

Hi everyone 👋

So me and my partner went through 3 miscarriages in 2020-2021. One was at 8 weeks, the next was a chemical and the third was a missed miscarriage only found out when we went for a private scan.

After around 16 months since the last one is felt ready to try again and conceived straight away. I am today roughly 4+5. I am obsessively testing twice a day as I'm so paranoid and getting on my own nerves! I think the test progress look ok, but at the same time don't know if it really means anything 🤦🏻‍♀️

Has anyone been through something similar and got any tips on how to relax?
Does anyone know how early you can book a private scan to check if everything is ok?

I have attached photo of tests.
Thank you x

No tips but wanted to say congrats! :)

@cymraes1989
I have had 4 miscarriages and I'm now 24+3 pregnant, unfortunately no words of wisdom to calm you down as I'm still a mess and full of anxiety l, contact you epu after 3 losses they should scan you they norm leave to abot 7 weeks thou l, are you on progesterone to its protocol aftet 3 miscarriages, congratulations and hope this is your rainbow xx

Thank you I am 🙏 every night that this is our rainbow. Do you know if I can buy progesterone online? Congratulations too and hope all going ok for you ❣️ x

Thank you so much x

@cymraes1989 I know you can see a gyno private and pay for it, but try phoning ur doc tomorrow and see what they say, look up miscarriage association and read the guild lines on progesterone to your doc xx

Hi, we were in a similar situation to you after numerous losses. Ultra sound direct do scans from 6 weeks. I also used to text twice daily to see line progression and then tested with the clearblue to see if the weeks went from 1-2, 2-3 and 3+. I don’t think you can relax in that situation to be honest, the only thing that I can suggest is make plans and keep busy, it helped me from going crazy and I’m now sat with my one week old!

congratulations xx