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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Panicking. 3 positive tests. Followed by 4 negatives

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AmandaHadfield · 07/12/2021 12:38

Hey guys, I am new to all this. Been trying to conceive for 2 months. I am a healthy 29 year old, had a fertility scan last month for peace of mind and all normal.

My period is always bang on, and this month it was late. I had a positive test the night it was supposed to come. I had two more positive tests the next day and was over the moon and told my husband. I had sore breasts, mild mild cramps and urinating frequently.

Why am I suddenly having negative tests I am totally panicked over an early pregnancy loss. My doctor won't see me or do bloods. They said wait 1 week and test again if I don't have a bleed.

If it was a chemical pregnancy or an early loss surely I would have bled by now!? Am I still pregnant or have I lost the baby but my body still thinks I am pregnant !?

Feeling lost , heartbroken but still holding out hope. Any ladies here been through anything like this?!?!
Xx

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Houseofvelour · 07/12/2021 12:40

How long has it been between the positive and negative tests and which brand were the negatives? X

GrowBabyGrow · 07/12/2021 18:06

I found that after my first test I took one later in the day and the line was barely there. This freaked me out at first until I read that in the really early days that can happen because you don't have enough HcG in your urine apart from the first one of the day. And it doubles every 2 days. So if the negative tests weren't the first one of the day there is a chance its a false negative. Hope this is helpful xx

AmandaHadfield · 07/12/2021 19:11

All the tests were clear blue.
3 positives Friday , and 2 Saturday. First two were ones with lones and 3rd was a digital saying 1-2 weeks pregnant

All the negatives have been digital. Sunday morning (24 hours after the last positive)

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AmandaHadfield · 07/12/2021 19:12

I had negatives Monday morning too :( and I'm 5 days late for my period now. Still feel pregnant and no bleeding !

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Holskey · 07/12/2021 21:30

CB digital aren't very sensitive, so it could be that your hcg was just enough to give you a positive that first time, but your urine was slightly less concentrated on the following tests (which can happen even with fmu). It is concerning, but as it's just one brand that isn't very sensitive, I would test again. Good luck 🤞

AmandaHadfield · 08/12/2021 13:18

I have definitely lost the baby , completely heartbroken. I wrote this poem to express how I am feeling :

With each positve test I held my belly more,
3 in a row, until I took number four.
Sick from panic, but we clung to hope,
Each negative that followed, we could not cope.
Why did this happen to us and what happens now?
I still feel so pregnant, could it still be somehow?
I hid everything we so quickly bought,
Seeing a baby grow and toy left us too distraught
Christmas cards for 'uncles' and 'grandma' ,we could not wait to share,
Next time my lips are sealed, I wouldn't dare..
..even tell Sean unless I really know for sure,
Does it mean anything that this 1st time felt so pure?
I didnt know our positives could disappear in the blink of an eye,
Now just sit, wait for a bleed , stay off Google and cry .

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Houseofvelour · 08/12/2021 15:40

I am so so sorry Thanks

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