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Third failed FET and struggling to cope

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Voulezvous2727 · 01/12/2021 14:24

I've had 3 failed FET's in a row (back to back) I'm 8dp5dt today on the third but getting stark white negatives so know it hasn't worked. The lack of emotional support in clinics in truly shocking and I feel like I can't continue with this anymore. I've got 6 embryos left but I don't think I can keep going through this and feeling this way. It's totally ruining my life. This time of year is especially hard as there are happy families everywhere and it's a constant reminder of what you don't have. Can't see a way forward and can't even think about the financial implications.

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AnonymousXXIX · 01/12/2021 14:30

Sending digital hugs!

Aranciata · 01/12/2021 15:46

This is time to focus on how you're feeling now and process the disappointment that the FET hasn't worked. It's so horrible.
If your clinic is not supportive maybe you can speak to a counsellor specialising in infertility.
You might also find more support/understanding on the Infertility boards here. 💐

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