I don’t know what’s going on

[becch2611]

Help, I found out I was pregnant about a month ago and my emotions are all over! To the point I’m questioning now do I want this pregnancy, I’m so ill and drained and I hate myself for having these thoughts, I just feel so overwhelmed.

@becch2611 I am sorry to hear you are going through this. A big part of it is probably your rapidly changing hormones. It can be a right roller-coaster in early pregnancy. Try and give yourself some space and time. Don't make any quick decisions. If you feel like you are still struggling in a few days go to your midwife or GP. They are there to help you and won't judge you.

I was so happy when I found out, I feel like a different person now, I’m hoping it’s hormones, I can’t imagine feeling like this for months on end, thankyou for replying, I don’t have anyone I can talk too, I’m scared people will judge me 😔

It is OK to feel like that. A lot of people go through a wobble in the first trimester. I think it is part of getting your head around the changes coming up.

Give yourself some time and focus on taking care of yourself and your mental health.