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9+4 all symptoms gone and bloody discharge, I'm losing hope.

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MovinOnUp · 08/05/2021 21:01

I've felt horrendous since the beginning of this pregnancy.
Massive, hard, sore boobs.
Bloating and constant nausea and knackered all the time.
Symptoms started to lessen on Tuesday.
By Wednesday they were all gone and I had a bit of bloody discharge when I wiped.
Called EPU and the earliest they could see me is Monday.
I've had two missed miscarriages and it's happening again 😢

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Kollamoolitumarellipawkyrollo · 08/05/2021 21:09

It’s horrible when any worries like this happen and harder at the weekend as you have to wait longer. Sorry you’re going through all this. Flowers

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MovinOnUp · 08/05/2021 21:27

Thank you @Kollamoolitumarellipawkyrollo
This is my last attempt, So if there is no heartbeat on Monday it's all over, no baby at all as I'm not going through this again.
I'll be 42 this year and it's too late.

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jp83 · 08/05/2021 21:44

I had blood,like,quite a lot of it,when i was 6w4days i think.It started when i was 6 weeks,but it was just a pink stain when i wiped.Then 4 days later it was red and it continued for 1 more day.Then it was brown.I gave birth to a baby boy in February.It was an ivf pregnancy.I took lots and lots of progesterone though,even though my doctor didn't tell me to do that.I took 4-5 200 mg progesterone pills extra-i was already on progesterone,due to ivf -and i gave myself a couple more progesterone injections.Hope your pregnancy continues just fine!

georgarina · 08/05/2021 21:53

Fingers crossed for you, good luck and hope all goes well xxx

Lovely234 · 08/05/2021 21:58

Fingers crossed for you, I had a missed miscarriage and no blood and then a full term healthy baby with bloody discharge at 6 weeks! So don’t give up hope. In hindsight I assume it was my cervix changing in preparation for pregnancy, hopefully yours is the same x

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MovinOnUp · 08/05/2021 22:13

Thanks all.
I just don't feel pregnant anymore.
Monday can't come quickly enough.

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Changechangychange · 08/05/2021 22:16

I am really sorry OP - this is exactly what my first miscarriage felt like (with my second, I only found out at the 13 week scan).

Fingers crossed for you - at 9+4, it could just be your first trimester symptoms passing. In my only successful pregnancy, my morning sickness etc had definitely improved before 13 weeks.

joystir59 · 08/05/2021 22:16

I really hope you are wrong and still totally pregnant OP

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MovinOnUp · 09/05/2021 01:21

What's with the deleted posts?

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MissOrganisedMe · 09/05/2021 01:25

It was a bot.

I've recently had a medical management of a MMC. I understand your worries. Hoping for the best for you.

DramaAlpaca · 09/05/2021 01:25

Ignore the deleted posts @MovinOnUp. It's nasty pornographic spam that's all over the site tonight and is best ignored.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed that all will be well for you Flowers

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MovinOnUp · 09/05/2021 01:49

Thanks guys.

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Pix89 · 09/05/2021 09:02

Hi. It is my first so I am by no means the most experienced mum. But for the first 9 weeks I was similar to you, massive, hard, sore boobs, light cramping, no sickness but bad nausea. At 8 weeks I had a brown discharge which lasted 7-10 days. EPU saw me for a scan and were happy with what they saw, no reason for the discharge.
I had my 12w scan, again, all normal. I am now 13+4 and still no sign of symptoms coming back.
They do say around 9 weeks the placenta starts to take over so symptoms might reduce. Sending you lots of love and luck OP

Orangebug · 09/05/2021 09:04

Good luck for tomorrow OP.

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MovinOnUp · 09/05/2021 09:26

Thanks @Pix89 and @Orangebug

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MovinOnUp · 10/05/2021 13:05

Not good news.no heartbeat, in for surgery on Wednesday.

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MissOrganisedMe · 10/05/2021 13:33

I'm so sorry @MovinOnUp ❤️ Take care of yourself and I hope that you have people supporting you at this difficult time. I didn't have surgery so no experience there but here if you need to talk.

Orangebug · 10/05/2021 13:54

So sorry to hear that MovinOnUp Flowers

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MovinOnUp · 10/05/2021 14:12

Thank you so much.
Feel a bit numb. This is my third miscarriage in a row so they have offered tests to see if there are any underlying causes, but I don't think I'd be trying again.
I said this was my last attempt as I'll be 42 this year and I'm not sure I can put myself through this again.

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Orangebug · 10/05/2021 14:28

So devastated for you Sad

AutumnVibes · 10/05/2021 14:57

So sorry to read this. I had a miscarriage last year and it was awful. I’m 39 too, so not your either. All I would say is just don’t make any decisions right now because it is such a horrible time. Sorry x

DramaAlpaca · 10/05/2021 15:25

Oh, I'm so sorry Flowers

MissOrganisedMe · 11/05/2021 08:40

@MovinOnUp I'm currently having the same thoughts. It's tough.