Hi ladies,
Please can you offer me some non judgmental advice and support ? ☹️ I am a first time mum and 27 years old my pregnancy was a surprise but the biggest blessing. I am currently 15 weeks pregnant and had the quad test for DS on Wednesday. Received a call from the hospital today to say that my results came back that I am high risk and I have a 1/150 chance. I am very upset and shocked as due to my age I wasn’t expecting this and everyone told me not to worry about doing bloods as it would come back with nothing. I have an appointment at the hospital tomorrow to discuss my options however I have read that the diagnosis tests risk miscarriage.
The baby’s father is a Doctor but has provided no support since finding out I’m pregnant and I have had quite bad anxiety due to this and feel like I’ve let my baby down. I currently live with my sister and have a supportive family but I am so worried now. ☹️ Has anyone had the tests or been given a higher result at my age. I am British but my partner is Iraqi origin would appreciate any advice or kind words.