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jade0881 · 23/04/2021 19:59

Hi,
So I recently found out that I'm expecting my 3rd child. However my periods were irregular and I had been bleeding twice in a month since January 21. I'm looking big.

Isit normal. Doctors won't scan me till I'm 12 weeks.

Any advice

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PinkCookie11 · 23/04/2021 20:01

I heard with your third onwards you tend to show a lot quicker

jade0881 · 23/04/2021 20:05

@PinkCookie11

Thanks for that. I just feel like I'm big considering I had a flat tummy

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Bobbots · 23/04/2021 20:06

I’d get a private scan if you can afford it

jade0881 · 23/04/2021 20:09

@Bobbots
Yes that is what I was thinking but the one close to me is fully booked for 2weeks.

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bumpdownthestairs · 23/04/2021 20:11

Just tell the doctor/midwife you are concerned as you don't know your dates? I would imagine they would scan you a bit quicker if you explain.

jade0881 · 23/04/2021 20:14

@bumpdownthestairs
I have. I also told them I had 2 previous MC but doesn't seem to work

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Holly91 · 23/04/2021 20:21

I told my gp and midwife at booking appointment that I wasn’t sure how many weeks I was and she said she would put it down as urgent for a scan... I still waited 4 weeks for my appointment went for my 1st scan on Tuesday and was 17 weeks 6days which was abit if a shock so I’d agree it doesn’t really seem to speed it up if u say u aren’t sure on weeks etc

jade0881 · 23/04/2021 20:23

@Holly91
Aww congratulations hun. Yeah I just feel like whatever I say it won't speed it up.
I will try and find a place to book a private test if I can x

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WalkingMeAway · 23/04/2021 21:34

I'm pregnant with my third and my bloating was off the scale. It did go down though. How many weeks do you think you are ?

jade0881 · 23/04/2021 22:48

@WalkingMeAway
I'm not sure I could be anywhere between 5 weeks to 16 weeks. Reason being is my periods have been irregular for the past couple months x

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WalkingMeAway · 24/04/2021 07:54

That frustrating. I agree to book a private scan when you can.

I just looked at a pic of me at 6 weeks and friends and family would have been able to tell as normally my tummy is so flat.

Would be nice if you were closer to 12w to miss all the first trimester rubbish!

jade0881 · 24/04/2021 10:14

@WalkingMeAway
Yes I agree I would be booking a private scan. I really do hope I am too lol. How is your pregnancy now

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PutOnAHappyFace · 24/04/2021 11:40

How strong was the line on your first positive test?

I'm pregnant with DC4, I had a massive 'bump' that turned out to be bloat, calmed down a little then baby popped and became proper bump.

jade0881 · 24/04/2021 11:53

@PutOnAHappyFace
Hey, congratulations.... the first and second test was very strong lines..

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PutOnAHappyFace · 24/04/2021 12:01

Ooo I'd be really tempted to get a private scan then.

jade0881 · 24/04/2021 12:17

@PutOnAHappyFace
Yes I'll have to wait till I get paid now. But I am defo getting one done

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PutOnAHappyFace · 24/04/2021 12:26

Oh and congratulations, I always thought how amazing it would be to skip the first 12 weeks.

jade0881 · 24/04/2021 12:42

@PutOnAHappyFace
Thank you Hun. Congratulations to you to....Yes exactly I would love to just skip the first 12 weeks.

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TakeYourFinalPosition · 24/04/2021 13:16

I was at the EPU yesterday, and there were two ladies who had come in to be scanned as they didn't know how far gone they were - but the nurse on reception said they won't scan for that reason, and that a midwife would approximate and arrange scans after the booking in appointment.

I think I'd definitely be finding a private scan place; although I'm only 5+4 and the bloating has been insane.

WalkingMeAway · 24/04/2021 13:55

Good thank you. 29 weeks now. Bump growth has slowed down only measuring 27w

Serious bloat in first trimester !

Keep us updated. All the best x

Passthewinebottle · 24/04/2021 14:05

Good luck op, let us know too please!

jade0881 · 24/04/2021 14:26

Thank you to all that has replied. God bless you all and I will keep you all updated. Congratulations to all those who are pregnant xx

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jade0881 · 27/04/2021 18:25

Hi all a quick update. I have a scan booked for 11-5-21. Shame it's still far away... I will keep you updated .... Wink

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WalkingMeAway · 27/04/2021 19:35

Exciting ! Good luck x

PutOnAHappyFace · 27/04/2021 19:38

Oh exciting.

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