I’m pregnant with my third child and chose not find out the sex at my 20 week scan. I didn’t know the sex of my other two children until they were born either.
I’m really starting to waiver though and think I want to know. I have a scan on Friday at 34 weeks because of a medical issue so I guess I could find out then if baby is in the right position. My DH doesn’t want to know but understands if I do and just wouldn’t want me to tell him.
My question is, did anyone else choose to find out later on in pregnancy having changed their mind? Did you regret it?
I had PND after the birth of my second child and I’m wondering if knowing what this one is will help me feel bonded already and reduce the chance of it happening again. Is that just wishful thinking?