Hi Mumsnet!
Kind of freaking out here, period was late but didn’t think too much of it as my cycles are 36-39 days by day 42 no period and I just had this feeling I was pregnant, boobs so sore, nausea, cramps etc. Did a test yesterday morning and yep there’s the cross!
This is not planned but I am married, financially secure it’s just not the right time - well is it ever?!
Anyway it is what it is as they say but as it wasn’t planned, I have been drinking a lot - well over the recommended NHS amount - maybe 2 large wines a night and weekends even worse (I have a very very stressful job)!!! I have not been looking after my health at all and I am so so so worried about what might happen or risks I could have posed to the baby and I just don’t know what to do. I am completely freaked out :( I feel so guilty.
Should I tell my GP, is there anything I can do now?! Or is the damage done.