Anyone else fed up of being told ‘count yourself lucky’ ?

[Vogue1992]

I can’t help but get annoyed by the continuous ‘count yourself lucky you don’t have any symptoms’ comment, how is it lucky when people with minimal or lack of symptoms think the worst and over analyse anything / everything. Especially when there has been previous loss/losses before.

Please bare this in mind before commenting, just as I would bare in mind how awful it just be to be diagnosed with extreme morning sickness etc.

@Illy605 I didn't have any symptoms other than tiredness in the first trimester. No sore boobs etc at all. She's now a healthy 4 year old. Lack of symptoms doesn't mean there's a problem. I even bled twice in the first trimester.