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What is going on?! * pics included *

13 replies

cocobrownie · 19/10/2020 13:09

Hi all,

Apologies for sounding crazy.. but here we go 😂

So I fell pregnant last month, but sadly it ended in what I assumed was a chemical pregnancy.. I had positive tests but ended up bleeding and didn't test any more following this as I couldn't stand the heartbreak.

I'm now cycle day 20 in my bed cycle, been testing with OPK's since day 10 but not had any indication of a peak at all, all of my tests are stating the same colour and darkness. It's really confusing..

DP and I haven't dtd very much this cycle due to work etc, and I was waiting for my fertile window.. but the positive OPK just hasn't come yet ☹️🤷‍♀️
We DTD 15th and 18th Oct (this month) but obviously that wasn't long ago...

I had a really strange, light bleed on 16th October, only visible on toilet paper, and it was a tinyyyy amount - like a paper cut.

Today, I took a FRER as I wanted to rule out possibly still being pregnant. I know that it isn't common after a bleed (which I thought was a chemical) but also isn't unheard of..

Well this is the result I got. I feel like I can see a hint of / beginning of a line on these, but I really am not sure.

Any guidance at this point would be fab, I'm so confused and feeling so deflated.

What is going on?! * pics included *
What is going on?! * pics included *
OP posts:
TheDaydreamBelievers · 19/10/2020 13:15

Firstly, I'm sorry about your chemical pregnancy.

Cycles can be irregular after MC, even v early MC/chemicals.

I can see the line you are talking about. I'd keep testing every 2 days using FMU. If that line gets stronger, then I'd say it's a new pregnancy. If it remains like that or disappears then it may be the remaining hcg from the chemical?

cocobrownie · 19/10/2020 13:22

@TheDaydreamBelievers thank you so much for replying - I'm feeling so alone right now 😔

I will keep testing. I literally didn't even think I could be potentially pregnant this month. I don't feel like I have DTD enough, it doesn't make sense but I'd be absolutely OVER THE MOON!!! if it was. What a miracle 💫

I will test again in 2/3 days and see what happens from there. I thought it could be left over hormones too. 😔🤷‍♀️

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cocobrownie · 19/10/2020 14:28

Bump 💓

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PolarBearStrength · 19/10/2020 14:43

IME FR tests have quite an obvious indent line and it makes it easy to get excited about a line that isn’t really there. I would leave it another week before testing again. If it’s not an obviously strong positive at that stage, you aren’t pregnant. I think madness lies in testing very frequently.

cocobrownie · 19/10/2020 15:13

@PolarBearStrength hi, thanks for commenting :)
I actually haven't tested in almost a month following unfortunately having had (or what I believe was) a chemical pregnancy.
I couldn't bear the heartache..

I have only tested this morning after wondering why I haven't yet ovulated, just to see.. maybe it's left over pregnancy hormone. I don't know 🤷‍♀️

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ivfbeenbusy · 19/10/2020 15:14

Sorry OP that just looks like the indent line to me

cocobrownie · 19/10/2020 15:18

@ivfbeenbusy it's okay don't worry - I thought it probably will be.
It's just that I had moment this morning where I thought, oh.. maybe it could be pregnancy?

I think personally it's just that I'm late to ovulate!

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cocobrownie · 19/10/2020 18:56

Bump 💫

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GanderousGoose · 19/10/2020 21:10

This looks like the indent to me OP. Sorry. FX for you!

Oneandabean · 19/10/2020 21:25

I would say definitely Negative sorry OP

cocobrownie · 19/10/2020 21:53

@GanderousGoose that's okay, thanks so much for commenting ☺️ I wasn't expecting a positive at all anyway, and not sure it would have been even entirely possible 😆

Xx

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cocobrownie · 19/10/2020 21:54

@Oneandabean that's okay, thanks so much for commenting ☺️☺️

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sarahc336 · 20/10/2020 06:30

I thinknits the indent line and you may just be having a strange cycle after a chemical pregnancy sorry xx

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