pregnant after giving birth 4 months ago!

[Babymama94]

Hi all,
I'm new to this website but I need some advice!
I have just found out that I am pregnant again after only giving birth to my daughter 4 and a half months ago ( I forgot to take a couple of my birth control pills) I'm really scared and unsure as to how to proceed at this moment in time! Has anyone else had children very close together and if so how much of a struggle was is?
Any advice would be much appreciated!

There is an 11 month age gap between my eldest two and 13 month gap between 2nd and 3rd child.
As they were so close in age, it was like I was already in a routine with nappy changing and feeding a baby etc that it wasn't so bad. The hardest stage was when they couldn't talk and all were under 3. Now they are nearly 6,5 and 4 and they are amazing together. They play a lot together and also have their little arguments together, but it is so nice to see them together. They are the best of friends (most of the time) and I don't regret having them so close together.
Good luck in what you decide x

I have a slightly bigger gap, 16 months. Yes, it was tough at the beginning but it gets easier once you get into a routine. They've grown up as best friends and it was absolutely worth it to see the bond they've always had.

On the plus side they will be in different school years and have different years of birth :)

14m between mine. It's a great gap. Hard work being heavily pregnant with a non walker but it all gets that bit easier.

They're 4&3 now and olay together fabulous. They really love each other.