Please help. Pregnant but bf doesn't want

[chestnutbear]

I've been to the doctor today as have been feeling funny, with odd discharge.

I already done a swab in the week and it came back fine. So the dr said let's do a pregnancy test.

I've been taking the mini pill, one day I took it just on the 12 hour cusp but didn't think anything of it. My bf knows about this as I told him.

Anyway.... it's there. It's a positive.

My bf told me not even three nights ago that he doesn't want a baby as he has two from a previous. I don't know how to tell him.

We live in a two bed house and I have my son 24/7. How would we do it? We can't move as only just moved in a week ago!!

Worst timing. I am panicking so much and can't stop shaking.

I'm about to pick my son up. My bf is out until later at work.

What am I to do?? I can't stop crying.

First question: Do you want to keep the baby?

Yes I would, but I worry about finances and living space!

As he didn't want a baby and you were on the mini pill was he using condoms as well?

No, just the pill.

I think all you can do now, is tell him and see what the reaction would be. It may be he comes round to the idea now that it's a reality.

Hi, I live in a 2 bed with 2 boys and a girl on the way so it's doable. I think the best thing to do is be honest with him. Tell him how you feel and listen to him too. Hope all works out in the end.