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Anyone out there had 4 c-sections?

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NotThatKindOfDoctor · 31/07/2020 14:31

Hi ladies,

I was just wondering if any of you have had 4 c-sections?

I had to have an emergency with my first, my second baby was big so they made me have one for him too, after that I had no choice for number 3 and have been told the same for this pregnancy.

I heard the 4th is rough, but was hoping to hear about what other women who have had 4 actually experienced?

I’m fairly nervous about it.

Thanks x

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TwinklyLemonCrab · 01/04/2024 21:07

nildesparandum · 31/07/2020 22:23

This is interesting as I have found times have changed
Both of my two grown up children were born by EMCS 50 and48 years ago. Both under GA as was the done thing then, I don't think epidurals were invented then!.
During the first one my DS1 and I almost died because of the GA.My second pregnancy was spent in fear. At my first ante natal appointment the consultant sad that ''You should think about having the tubal tie, because you will most likely need another caesarean and we can't cut you open every time you want a baby''.This was 1972.You were limited to two at the most three sections because of the GA and also you were opened up with the longitudinal or classical incision which carried a greater risk of uterine rupture in following pregnancies.I agreed to the tubal tie straight away on condition of another caesarian. Halfway through the pregnant doctors changed their minds and decided I should have a trial of labour to give me a chance of vaginal delivery.
Well surprise surprise this failed, complications set in like the first time and back to theatre with the dreadful GA which did not try and kill us this time and my tubes were tied as well
If this had been now I would have had more than two.I have never forgotten that consultant's words, it is as if I was being told not to come back you cause trouble.

I have 3 C section the last one was in 2020 and I also got my tude tie the doctor have told me if I conceive again it will be very difficult for me so I will like some one who have been through it all is that true .

ninetales · 01/04/2024 21:39

NotThatKindOfDoctor · 02/08/2020 07:39

You have no idea how reassuring your messages are. Some people just throw out that it’s dangerous and have no idea the effect that it has on someone who is already very nervous about it, so thank you to everyone who has been so positive.

@richtea3389 I live in France at the moment and they won’t typically sterilise you when you have a c-section (even if you ask them to 🙋🏻‍♀️) unless it’s medically necessary. They reckon that they just want to concentrate on one operation at a time. I’m not due until March, but I’m an over thinker which is why I have already been getting my knickers twisted about it 😂 When are you due? If you want a 4 time section buddy to talk to, I am absolutely here for it!!

By the time I have number 4 it will have been nearly 7 years since my last one so I am hoping that such a long break in between will contribute to making things a little less risky.

@kazza446 you are giving me life with your experience! I had been preparing myself for a brutal recovery but 🤞🏽 I can have an easier time this time (if all goes well).

@ImagineRainbows - it’s also very nice to hear from someone who has looked after ladies who have had 4!

Thank you again to everyone who has taken time to comment something positive, you have no idea how much better you’ve made me feel, and I really appreciate it.

As you are in France, perhaps it might be worth looking into FAUCS technique? I've read that it's less invasive and smaller incision, but it's unavailable here in the UK. I'm not recommending it, I just wanted to let you know a bit of info in case you wanted to do some research!

Nordicpixie83 · 02/04/2024 10:27

I've had three csec. One emcs under ga at 32wk, the next elective with a spinal at 38wk such an easy recovery and was up dressed with hair and make up the next morning. No 3 was an emcs code red as i had a uterine tear with large pph. I was told any future pregnancy would be high risk and need managed carefully. That was almost 6.5yrs ago. I'm currently 11dpo and I've not tested. It wasn't planned to get pregnant and I've not tested as yet. But I would need to have a 4th csec and a very closely monitored pregnancy.

frostyfeb1 · 02/04/2024 13:35

I had my 4th C-section 3 weeks ago.. the surgery was uncomplicated and baby was born within 10 minutes of the procedure starting. I was discharged home within 24 hrs and the first few days were very painful (as with all my sections) but by day 5 I was feeling much better and feel almost back to normal now. I do have a small area of my scar that has reopened and needed redressed but it doesn't seem to be causing too many complications- I think this was down to me doing too much rather than 4th C-section. My doctor advised against tubal litigation during the surgery as there is a 1/100 failures rate if done at the time of a C-section however they did say they would if I insisted. Instead I got the copper coil inserted which lasts 10 years and will ask my GP to go on the list for sterilisation once I have healed. I was terrified for my whole pregnancy re complications of a 4th csection but honestly it has been fine and my team didn't seem concerned at all. I won't be going for a 5th though lol!

SallyBee123 · 08/05/2024 23:10

I'm due my 3rd c sec I'm so scared 😞😞

SallyBee123 · 08/05/2024 23:12

What does scar tissues mean.?
I've read it in a few posts in regard to c sections.

I have had 2 x sections. And now I get these horrible pains every month. No one knows what they are.
It's unbearable and lasts about 10 days every month
Is it scar tissues? Thank u

Chanbam89 · 13/06/2024 13:42

Hi @NotThatKindOfDoctor Just wondering how your 4th c-section went? I've just found out I'm pregnant with my 4th and I'm really nervous about it.

HallidayJones6779 · 12/11/2025 13:06

@Chanbam89 how did you get on? I could've just written your post myself! I don't know what to do.

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