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Who's the father please help

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Sharon0 · 31/07/2020 01:51

Hello everyone
This is quite a sensitive subject for me and I’m not so proud of myself , I have a beautiful baby girl and really happy but the question is who may be the father. I’m not really good with calculations I’m a young first time mum. Me and my ex broke up last year august the last time we had sex was august 9th 2019. I got with my new current partner late September 2019 and been having unprotected sex since. I had my daughter june 21st 2020. And now I don’t know who the father may be and It’s been stressing meConfused

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ThanksMateThanksMate · 31/07/2020 01:58

Hi. Going on arithmetic, your wee girl's Daddy is your new partner.
Aug- June is at least 10 months so your ex looks to be well out the picture.

kazzer2867 · 31/07/2020 02:45

Hi OP.

This is your 2nd post on the same subject. You're obviously worried and looking for an answer that fits with who you want to be the father. Your posts also seem to change the order of who you slept with. The only way you will know for sure is to get a dna test.

Good luck.

Sharon0 · 31/07/2020 02:54

@kazzer2867

Hi OP.

This is your 2nd post on the same subject. You're obviously worried and looking for an answer that fits with who you want to be the father. Your posts also seem to change the order of who you slept with. The only way you will know for sure is to get a dna test.

Good luck.

Hello yes I am very worried and it has been stressing me since , my current partner is very happy and I'd hate to break his heart if it's not his. My head is just all over the place Sorry
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Hannsmum · 31/07/2020 03:20

Did you have an early scan (6-8 wks pregnant) and if you did? What was your due date then?

Flumo · 31/07/2020 03:38

My little boy was due on the 30th on June and it was late September when it happened so I would go with your current partner. Definitely get a DNA done though.

Couchbettato · 31/07/2020 03:39

@MNHQ Please look into this. This same post, down to the dates mentioned, is frequently posted over in the ovia pregnancy app forums. Its been going for about 2 years now, on an almost daily basis.

Sharon0 · 31/07/2020 04:00

@Hannsmum

Did you have an early scan (6-8 wks pregnant) and if you did? What was your due date then?

Hello ,Yeah I had a 6week scan November 4th my actual due date was suppose to be 29th June but I had baby girl 21st June
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CodenameVillanelle · 31/07/2020 04:04

[quote Couchbettato]@MNHQ Please look into this. This same post, down to the dates mentioned, is frequently posted over in the ovia pregnancy app forums. Its been going for about 2 years now, on an almost daily basis.[/quote]
You need to report it rather than tag MNHQ as they won't see it this way

Sharon0 · 31/07/2020 04:29

[quote Couchbettato]@MNHQ Please look into this. This same post, down to the dates mentioned, is frequently posted over in the ovia pregnancy app forums. Its been going for about 2 years now, on an almost daily basis.[/quote]
Hello sorry I haven't used it or have a Ovia app

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sel2223 · 31/07/2020 06:21

If your due date was 29th June then you need to count back 38 weeks to work out the estimated date of conception - i work that out to be around 7th Oct, give or take a few days either side.

If the last time you slept with your ex was two months before that then it is physically impossible that it is his as it would mean you had an 11 month pregnancy.

sel2223 · 31/07/2020 06:58
Hannsmum · 31/07/2020 09:35

As previous poster said you got pregnant around 7th Oct if your due date was 29th June. Early scans are very accurate and your conception date would be off just 2- 3 days pregnant ether side.later scans are not as accurate

No way you would have gotten preg Aug. You would have been way overdue

Calm down and stop worrying. Enjpy the time with your baby

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