I'm so sorry you are going through this
Nuchal at just under 12w was 2.7 so higher end of normal but bloods came back 1:33 for downs on Monday this week.
I saw the screening midwife Tuesday and back in Wednesday for the iona test
It's a private screening test, like harmony but I believe harmony tests for more and option for gender and gender associated conditions.
We weren't offered cvs, a detailed scan or harmony.. It was iona or nothing/amnio at 16 weeks
It's a long hard wait, I've been told 1-2 weeks for results but I feel better having non invasive and doing the only thing I can right now as opposed to nothing
The iona is 99% accurate so if it comes back high risk we will have amnio at 16 weeks and take it from there. If low risk I think we will have to see how we feel and if its enough reassurance for no further testing and hope the 20 weeks scan is clear.. But that seems like such a long wait
I hope you get good news, there is still a chance but it's wise to try and prepare, let all your emotions happen and contact arc or anyone you think will support you
I personally feel disconnected now from baby, I don't want my bump to grow or feel anything. I'm told that's normal and damage control.
All the best. I really feel for you in this situation but doing anything right now to seek answers is great, even though daunting
Sending love