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Am I pregnant? PLEASE HELP

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Evelyn2343 · 19/01/2020 09:54

I had unprotected sex 5-6 days after my period ended. His penis was mostly flaccid as he could not keep it hard, but he still put it in after a few tries. Penetration only lasted for a few minutes because it kept slipping out and he told me he did not ejaculate. Now, after aprox. 3 weeks after, I started noticing that coffee made me very nauseous in the morning, which has never happened before. It is true that I have unhealthy eating habits and I'm very stressed because I have exams at uni, but this still freaks me out. I took a pregnancy test and it came back negative, but I'm scared it's false because although I did it only 2 hours after waking up, I drank some water and some coffee. My period is also late by a few days, but this could also be because I'm very stressed. Can it be possible that I'm pregnant? Please help, I'm terrified

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BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 19/01/2020 09:55

You have had unprotected sex. Therefore you are possibly pregnant.

Nobody here will be able to tell you for sure. Wait two more weeks then take a test.

Regardless of the result - consider whether you want a child and if you don't, buy some protection for future sexual encounters, and look at the option available for ending the pregnancy.

Wolfiefan · 19/01/2020 09:58

You need to take a test.

Alpacathebag · 19/01/2020 09:59

Only a test can tell you if you are pregnant. If it was negative wait another few days and use first morning urine.

Evelyn2343 · 19/01/2020 10:01

@Wolfiefan i did and it was negative

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OldEvilOwl · 19/01/2020 10:02

Yes you could be but it sounds unlikely. Test again in a few days

Evelyn2343 · 19/01/2020 10:05

How possible it is for a flaccid penis to impregnate you? The "penetration" was hard to do for him and wouldn't stay inside me for longer than 2-3 thrusts, so we just gave up after a few minutes. Is it enough??

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BilieEyelash · 19/01/2020 10:30

It has nothing to do with his penis being flaccid or not. If you were close to ovulation and some of her sperm is inside you you can become pregnant. This is biology.
If you don't want to get pregnant use contraception.

Wolfiefan · 19/01/2020 10:31

You sound very young or very naive.
Use contraception or don’t have sex if you don’t want to get pregnant.

boredboredboredboredbored · 19/01/2020 10:35
Hmm
1300cakes · 19/01/2020 10:45

If you took the test after your period was due and it was negative, then congratulations - you aren't pregnant.

LynetteScavo · 19/01/2020 13:30

Yes it is possible that you are pregnant, although it sounds unlikely.

Did you go to a state school in the UK? I'm a little concerned you wouldn't know the answer to this. Isn't this covered in the curriculum somewhere?

Irishgene · 19/01/2020 14:05

If you're past when you're period should have come and the test was negative then you're most likely not pregnant.

Get a 2 for 99p pack from Tescos and do another first thing in the morning to make sure.

Hopefully this is a wake up call for you. Get on the pill and use condoms if pregnancy terrifies you so much....I mean this nicely, I'm not trying to be patronising. Focus on uni and good luck 😊

Portionsforfoxes · 19/01/2020 16:14

Poor you, it's so scary worrying about being pregnant when you don't want to be. I think if you got a negative it sounds like you are safe but would suggest trying a first response test (they are the most sensitive) or testing in a few days to be 100 percent sure.

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