My boyfriend said he will leave me if i don't get an abortion. What do i do?

[Poppet626]

Some of you may have seen my previous post on here about being scared to tell my boyfriend im pregnant. So i did tell him and he said he didnt want baby, i should get an abortion. I said i didnt feel i could having done it before, although pregnancy was unplanned i dont want to abort. He said he is going to leave me as he does not want the child and will hate it as its been forced on him, i will be nothing in life other than a single mum but atleast now i can not work and sit on my ass all day. He said the child should already be dead and he will chuck me money each month but wont stay with me if i keep baby, he says ive ruined his life, he has spoke to his mum and she agrees i should not be making sudden decisions. He is 28 i am 23, i dont know what to do, ive never felt pain like this. He also offered to pay me to get an abortion.

With comments like he has made I would not stay with him. Do what you want about having a baby. You will be ok

Can not stress this enough!!! Do what YOU want to do my EX didn't give a shit throughout my pregnancy slightly different to you but since leaving his toxic little arse and being on my own with the support of friends and family it has been the best experience for me, if you want it you can do it there is so much support and help available if you need it and being a single mum is way better than being in a relationship with someone who clearly has 0 respect for you or how you feel being a single mum doesn't mean lonely it means meaningful hard work and gives you the opportunity to meet someone who will love you and your baby more than your current partner ever will, chances are you get an abortion you'll end up resenting him!! Xx

Do not be pressured into something.
Do what's best for you.

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