find out gender or not?

[Starsandthemoonx]

this is my 3rd baby and will be my last! I am so tempted to find out for the sake of being more organised and prepared as both my bubbas have came at 31 weeks on the other hand I'm thinking of keeping it a surprise as my pregnancies are always traumatic and think this would take my mind off that. half and half and really don't know what to do.. currently 16 + 4

I know everyone’s different but we are finding out. Have our private scan Friday and are going to ask sonographer to write it in a Xmas card which we will open on Xmas morning.

Could you maybe do something like that?

The Xmas card thing is such a lovely idea!
I've just found out the gender of no.2 for the sake of choosing a name and being organised with my decor :)
It's a surprise whenever you find out!

Do it!!!! We found out last Friday for my second DC - already got a wee DS so we're getting a daughter this time!!! It's honestly sooooo exciting!!!! We were both crying. Alot of people said to me that they couldn't understand why I wanted to find out but I couldn't understand why they couldn't understand!
It'd be handy for you aswell to get extra sorted and ready! Let us know if you find out!!

I am currently 19+5 I have my 20 week scan on Wednesday and decided to stay team yellow 💛 this is my first and I really want that moment of my partner telling me the sex when the baby is born! Although next time I will definitely find out as the wait is killing me 🙈😂