Pregnancy symptoms at 4 weeks

[Pitterpatter01]

So I got my wonderful BFP 2 days ago, I’m now 4 + 2 This will be my second child, I already have a DS who is 6.

I have cramps in my tummy, and it feels like it’s tightening up, and really bloated (bloated so much that I can’t actually hold my belly in) It all feels quite tender. I also feel really nauseous already. Last night I turned over in bed and felt like I had pulled a muscle in my side.

I’m not complaining because I’m so happy that I’m pregnant, but I just wondered if all of this is normal? I feel so delicate

Unfortunately I'm miscarrying x

Oh I'm so sorry @Delilah7 be kind to yourself xx

So so sorry to hear this @Delilah7
Sending hugs and TLC, look after yourself xxx

Thank you ladies xxxx

Really sorry to hear this Delilah7

Thank you ladies for your support. My baby has gone. Luckily it wasn’t ectopic and as it was only early days I won’t need any procedures. I have been given strong painkillers because the pain was intense. They said that it will just be a really heavy period with some clots and tissue.
I’m heartbroken and know it’s going to be difficult seeing the two other pregnant family members. I’m happy for them and praying there’s go well, just makes it a bit harder for me to come to terms with my loss.
We wanted this baby so badly. I’ve gone from being absolutely ecstatic to completely devastated overnight. Don’t really know what to do with myself x

@Pitterpatter01 I'm so sorry lovely. I know the feeling. I'm still trying to let it sink in but we wanted this baby so much too. Just support and be there for each other. It's hard. My OH is very closed so has snapped at me a few times but I know it's because he's upset.
Need anything or want to talk I'm here xxx

@Delilah7 it’s heartbreaking isn’t it. I was pushing my husband away because I feel like he is over it already and I don’t think I will ever get over it. I still have some light bleeding and cramps. Completely lost appetite and spent all of yesterday crying in bed. I feel a little less upset today.
Have you thought about trying again? I feel guilty even thinking about it but I do want to xxx

@Pitterpatter01 yeah I have but I think it's too soon but I don't know. If it's meant to be so soon it'll happen. I've been so busy since it happened with keeping busy now it's crashing down on me so I think I've rushed coming back to work. :( I understand with the OH thing xx

@Delilah7 can you take a day or two off? I’ve definitely needed to have time at home to rest xx

@Pitterpatter01 I had Thursday and Friday off. But tbh it didn't even sink in then. :( xx

@Delilah7 I thought I was get better but the tummy pains, back pains, sickness and hot flushes have returned

@Pitterpatter01 pace yourself hun xx