Insensitive husband

[Dixiechick1991]

I can't deal anymore.
I'm fed up of the guilt tripping "you should be exercising - it's not just about you anymore - you can't be selfish"

I'm a f*ing size 10. I haven't even gained any weight. I'm 19 weeks pregnant. I'm exhausted.

But in his head everyone suddenly gets their energy back at 12 weeks and I'm a massive liar.

Tonight's another night where I was clearly working and he's stormed out to the gym leaving me sobbing into a pillow because he's guilt tripped me and told me I'm lazy.

I can't stand it.

Sorry for the vent. I just wondered if anyone else had a partner who just didn't stop even when it was clear you were upset.

My thought dinobum

Coming of antidepressants can mess with moods, my mother and sister both experienced huge moods swings when getting off their medications and were sometimes irrational, volatile and very difficult. Was he on them for anxiety? Anxiety + coming of medication could be an explanation (though an excuse for cruelty though).

If this is abnormal behaviour then could you ask your midwife for advice? Could you set up a phone call between them where she can really to him ands hew can ask questions?