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no heartbeat at 12 wk scan - devestated

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Abwab · 01/02/2007 10:22

I had my 12 wk scan yesterday and sadly they were unable to find a heartbeat. It looks like the baby died at about 9 weeks and despite having morning sickness until just a couple of days ago I had a horrible gut feeling something like this would happen. I feel so sad, angry and cheated. I now have to got to clinic tomorrow for bloods etc and wait to see if they have a slot for me for a D & C but it is looking like i will have to wait until Monday. My emotions are all over the place and i'm just wandering round in a daze. Our close family and friends knew about the pregnancy and are all bring very supportive and i know we have to keep going for our DS (2.4) but we just feel so floored by it all.

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bossykate · 02/02/2007 10:36

"I feel so sad, angry and cheated"

Of course you do, my love. So sorry you lost your baby

sazzybee · 02/02/2007 12:15

I'm so sorry - it happened to me before this one and I can honestly say it's the worst pain I've ever been through - absolutely devastating.

Give yourself time to grieve and it will help that others know - you need their kindness.

Take care x

WestCountryLass · 02/02/2007 13:53

I am so sorry

Abwab · 02/02/2007 19:57

As suspected I have to wait until Monday for the procedure which is not the best. I feel very up and down, one minute accepting what has happened and another minute I can still see the image of my babies head on the scan monitor whilst hearing those hideous words.

DH, family, friends and all you lovely people are bing wonderful and my DS still makes me smile!

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Skyler · 02/02/2007 20:09

Oh no, I am so sorry . This must be so hard for you.

popsycal · 02/02/2007 20:10

so sorry
the exact same thing happened to my sister a few years ago

xxx

hewlettsdaughter · 02/02/2007 20:12

xxx

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