husbands phone on private browsing

[Giraffe5]

I'm 33 weeks pregnant and was using my husbands phone earlier when I realised it was set to private browsing.

I've always noticed his iPhone toolbar was black and mine white and so I know he had private on all the time. I'm now paranoid he is talking to other women or watching porn.

He said recently that he is the happiest he has ever been but we don't have sex as often as we used to. He used to be all over me and wanting it every day. He is working 6 days a week and really long hours as he has set up his own business. I do honestly believe he is at work when he says he is so maybe the change of sex drive is due to tiredness. He is knackered.

Should I ask him outright why it's on private? Or should I wait until I can use it and ask why it is on private browsing?

I'm wondering if it is because he has an online bank for his business. But I feel I need his answer for why it is on private browsing.

Depending how much it is REALLY bothering you - and keep in mind that hormones will be playing a part in this - then really consider having an open conversation with him. DO not accuse him, it's his phone afterall, he can do what he likes and as PP's suggest, it could have been activation by accident.

Working 6 days a week, long hours and own business with heavily pregnant wife - would leave very little sex drive left, but what little he does have may just use porn quickly. I had this awkward chat with my DH few years ago and until we had a very frank and open conversation about it I would get upset. Now know my DH watches it but not to the detriment of our relationship - if I'm 'keen' he'd far rather be with me than his phone. As it is at 39weeks pregnant I'd rather he lay off me!!!
Talk to him before jumping to conclusions and getting more upset.

My husband uses private browsing because he hates that information is gathered about what you search and ads pop up as a result

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