Hi all,
Gave birth to DS2 three weeks ago and just wanted to make a general recommendation for hypnobirthing (i'm lumping hypnobirthing and natal hypnotherapy together here - i am sure there are differences, but the general principle is the same).
I'm not normally into this sort of thing and I'm definitely not a crystal-and-chanting sort of person, but this stuff has sound principles behind it - so do give it a go, even if it's just a few breathing techniques. I don't think you should have high expectations that it will mean a gentle pain-free birth (although i'm sure it's possible), but it will mean that you feel much more calm and in control, and better able to deal with the pain, and better able to deal with any complications that arise. My birth was still a bit of an ordeal, but much better than birth of DS1. i felt in control the whole time and the midwife kept commenting on how chilled out i was. Got my tear stitched up in theatre afterwards, and the theatre staff also commented on how relaxed i was.
There are loads of different options, and i'm by no means an expert on what is best, but for info, this is the CD i used: www.amazon.co.uk/Effective-Birth-Preparation-Hospital-Centre/dp/1905220502/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1428658360&sr=8-2&keywords=effective+birth+preparation
I listened to it every day from week 36 and always felt really positive and chilled out afterwards (not my normal state of mind!)
Good luck and congratulations to you all! 