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2nd pregnancy very different to 1st?

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Treesandbees · 14/12/2014 12:53

Just wondering if this happens to people? I've recently found out I'm pregnant with #2 (almost 5 weeks) but it feels so different to my DS that I'm paranoid it's going to end in MC (have had 1 before DS). With my DS I had lots of early symptoms, particularly my boobs which were so sore from day 1. This time around my boobs aren't sore at all and all I have is tiredness and cramps so I'm naturally fearing the worst!

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Luciferbox · 14/12/2014 13:59

I'm now pregnant with my second. Last time my boobs hurt right at the start but this time they only started to hurt last weekend when I was 5+3. It's different but they're getting more painful each day so maybe your other symptoms will kick in at a later date.

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GotToBeInItToWinIt · 14/12/2014 14:27

I actually could have written your OP. First time round my breasts were so painful that before I knew I was pregnant I thought id pulled a muscle or something. Haven't had any pain at all this time round. I'm around 10+4 now and paid for a private scan at 9 weeks because I was so paranoid due to the difference in symptoms. All was fine then and hopefully still is Smile.

Mrsgrumble · 14/12/2014 14:36

Totally different pregnancies

Not sick with dc 1 - very sick with dc 2 (mostly upset stomach)

Emotional with dc 2 - gentler kicks smaller bump Etc

Same sex though

LIG1979 · 14/12/2014 15:41

Yes - had early symptoms with both yet with dd it was sore boobs and with this one it was a metallic taste in the mouth. Both times nausea kicked in around 5 weeks. With dd, the morning sickness was improving by 10 weeks and gone by 12 weeks, this time it went on to 18 weeks. Generally this second one is a bit rubbish really but I think it is because I am juggling work and a toddler and have less time to rest.

Treesandbees · 14/12/2014 17:43

Thanks everyone you are reassuring me! Had to go to a Crimbo party and had a decoy Baileys. Took a tiny sip and it made my stomach turn. Normally love the stuff so counting that as a 'symptom'!! Might have to have an early scan as stressing myself out so much!

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blackwidow74 · 14/12/2014 20:41

My pregnancies have been different too ... 2nd was new partner so that was a factor ... All my boys were symptom free whereas my daughter and this pregnancy I had every symptom possible (this is a girl too) and this time I've been so much more tired but I'm told that's down to my age lol :)

Mammanat222 · 15/12/2014 09:15

All my pregnancies have been very similar (I have had 4 miscarriages, have DS and am 35w with number 2) in that I had very few symptoms.

My successful pregnancies have been very similar physically [although I am very tired this time, a lot more so than first time round but understandable as I have a toddler and work FT]. Emotionally though my second pregnancy has been very different.

Last time I was calm, serene, peaceful and happy. This time I am angry, miserable, snappy and moody!! Had DS last time, this time it's a DD!

Swanny84 · 15/12/2014 21:28

My first pregnancy was practically symptom free the whole way through, 2nd was awful, morning sickness 24/7 till 28 weeks (lost 3 stone but had massive bump) both girls. This one I'm tired, sore breasts which I didn't have with either and lots of nausea. All pregnancies are different hun, I've learnt this and by far this is my worst. I worked full time with both till 35 weeks, only in 1st trimester and work part time now and honestly fall into bed each night xx

Faithsmum0110 · 15/12/2014 21:34

With my first my pregnancy was a breeze no sickness etc. this one I have felt sick sore boobs and this evening started having a little bleed so scared. Hope everything goes we'll with yours xx

Swanny84 · 15/12/2014 21:35

Faithsmum, I hope everything is ok. Xxx

berrypicking · 16/12/2014 15:48

My last pregnancy with DS I felt great hardly any symptoms. I am now 11 weeks with our second and I feel awful. Really bad morning sickness, such sore boobs, ears always popping and exhausted. I guess it's true that all pregnancies are different!

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