I got an ''Oh well, never mind......'' today when I told someone (when asked) that I am expecting a DS4

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Please tell me....How do I deal with this?

DS4 to-be is actually DS5. One of my twin sons died last year. I started crying and shouting "How can you say that?" What? Shall I send this one back? Should I have aborted when I knew I was having another son?

I'm all over the place.

So sorry that this person has been so insensitive bubble. Unfortunately, it's very easy for people to say completely the wrong thing - most of us have nothing more offensive than comments about how enormous we are to cope with. But you can have a lovely secret smile to yourself that this baby is not an accident, nor bad timing but dearly loved and wanted - and you'll be getting to see him sooo soon!

Thankyou, all of you. XX

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